It’s a P3 party! Enjoy a parade of articles, stories, updates and musings on all things Playful, Peaceful and Passionate in relationship. Read up on the most fun and useful tips for keeping the fights clean and the sex dirty and turning the relationship you have into the one you REALLY want.

The Shared Relationship Vision Exercise

The Squeaky Wheel. The squeaky wheel gets the grease, right?That’s why we tend to NOT give our relationship much attention until it DEMANDS it from us.How squeaky does YOUR relationship wheel have to get before you to DO SOMETHING?

The Pleasure and Power of “Post-Play”

Ride That Wave ALL The Way In. I grew up spending my summers on the beach nearly all day, every day. I used to boogie board – A LOT.One of my favorite parts of boogie boarding was riding the wave all the way to the shore. I wanted to savor the ride, and I would pump the board up and down to get every last bit of the fun that I could.

An End to Often, Extreme & Long Lasting Fights

NOW What?! The storm has passed. The fight is over. You survived.NOW what?!You may want to forget about the fight that just happened and “move on”, however, as they say, those who do not learn from history are DOOMED TO REPEAT THEMSELVES.So HOW do you lean into the lessons?After an argument, don’t just get PAST it, get the MOST out of it!

How To Lead AND Listen, Be Forceful AND Loving

Context is KING! Before you dive into delicious sex, decide what you REALLY want and what is the CONTEXT for your most INTIMATE INTERACTIONS.Is your unsatisfying sex life just one more thing on the long list of things you can be irked with your beloved about? Or is your sexlife an inspiring arena to play, learn and grow together?

How To Pull Your Argument Escape Hatch

Logic Will Get You NOWHERE. When you’re in an argument with your beloved and in the heat of it, LOGIC, REASON & PROBLEM SOLVING won’t do you very much good AT ALL.They can even be like gasoline to a fire – EXPLOSIVE!

Set & Setting Are EVERYTHING

Set & Setting Are EVERYTHING! I’m not into psychedelics, but I sure am into super satisfying sex!Still, you can learn a lot about how to have super-satisfying-sex by taking a lesson out of the psychedelic handbook.“Set and setting” is EVERYTHING.

How to Avoid Argument On-Ramps

I Was JUST About To Do It! Do you CRINGE when your beloved asks you to do something that you were JUST about to do? For some reason it can be INFURIATING!So what do you do?

Initiate Inertia – Tend To Your Garden Or Weeds WILL Grow

Tend to Your Garden, Or Weeds WILL Grow. Seduction starts WAY earlier than most think. The way you relate to your partner ALL-DAY-LONG creates your relationship environment.

Identify & Eliminate “Friction Factors”

Things Can Get Nasty. You’re in the thick of it. You’ve felt the tension building. Now suddenly it’s a free-for-all.Triggers, reactions and emotions are flying high.Maybe you even sink to resorting to the no-holds-barred manner of relating. And it’s off the races to who is right, who’s wrong, who’s the victim or who’s the oppressor.

Romp Recap To The Rescue

Even-Better–IF-ing. Think of all the places in life we look at what went well, what we loved and what could have worked better.We’re nearly constantly assessing how things went and making adjustments for an even better future. There is even a term for it – EBI’s – Even Better Ifs.

How to Turn Breakdowns Into Breakthroughs

The Storm Has Passed. OK the storm has passed. The fight is over. NOW what?You may want to forget about the fight that just happened, however, as they say, those who do not learn from history are DOOMED TO REPEAT THEMSELVES.

The Power of a Proactive Perspective

The PRO-ACTIVE Perspective. Being proactive and moving TOWARDS what you DO want is a top priority in all the relationship “work” we do.It takes focus, education, intention and attention to be PRO-ACTIVE and move TOWARDS, because as humans, we are designed AND conditioned to react to what’s coming at you and either move away or lash out.



Let’s Talk Love!

Free Consultation Call

It’s a P3 party! Enjoy a parade of articles, stories, updates and musings on all things Playful, Peaceful and Passionate in relationship. Read up on the most fun and useful tips for keeping the fights clean and the sex dirty and turning the relationship you have into the one you REALLY want.

The Shared Relationship Vision Exercise

The Squeaky Wheel. The squeaky wheel gets the grease, right?That’s why we tend to NOT give our relationship much attention until it DEMANDS it from us.How squeaky does YOUR relationship wheel have to get before you to DO SOMETHING?

The Pleasure and Power of “Post-Play”

Ride That Wave ALL The Way In. I grew up spending my summers on the beach nearly all day, every day. I used to boogie board – A LOT.One of my favorite parts of boogie boarding was riding the wave all the way to the shore. I wanted to savor the ride, and I would pump the board up and down to get every last bit of the fun that I could.

An End to Often, Extreme & Long Lasting Fights

NOW What?! The storm has passed. The fight is over. You survived.NOW what?!You may want to forget about the fight that just happened and “move on”, however, as they say, those who do not learn from history are DOOMED TO REPEAT THEMSELVES.So HOW do you lean into the lessons?After an argument, don’t just get PAST it, get the MOST out of it!

How To Lead AND Listen, Be Forceful AND Loving

Context is KING! Before you dive into delicious sex, decide what you REALLY want and what is the CONTEXT for your most INTIMATE INTERACTIONS.Is your unsatisfying sex life just one more thing on the long list of things you can be irked with your beloved about? Or is your sexlife an inspiring arena to play, learn and grow together?

How To Pull Your Argument Escape Hatch

Logic Will Get You NOWHERE. When you’re in an argument with your beloved and in the heat of it, LOGIC, REASON & PROBLEM SOLVING won’t do you very much good AT ALL.They can even be like gasoline to a fire – EXPLOSIVE!

Set & Setting Are EVERYTHING

Set & Setting Are EVERYTHING! I’m not into psychedelics, but I sure am into super satisfying sex!Still, you can learn a lot about how to have super-satisfying-sex by taking a lesson out of the psychedelic handbook.“Set and setting” is EVERYTHING.

How to Avoid Argument On-Ramps

I Was JUST About To Do It! Do you CRINGE when your beloved asks you to do something that you were JUST about to do? For some reason it can be INFURIATING!So what do you do?

Initiate Inertia – Tend To Your Garden Or Weeds WILL Grow

Tend to Your Garden, Or Weeds WILL Grow. Seduction starts WAY earlier than most think. The way you relate to your partner ALL-DAY-LONG creates your relationship environment.

Identify & Eliminate “Friction Factors”

Things Can Get Nasty. You’re in the thick of it. You’ve felt the tension building. Now suddenly it’s a free-for-all.Triggers, reactions and emotions are flying high.Maybe you even sink to resorting to the no-holds-barred manner of relating. And it’s off the races to who is right, who’s wrong, who’s the victim or who’s the oppressor.

Romp Recap To The Rescue

Even-Better–IF-ing. Think of all the places in life we look at what went well, what we loved and what could have worked better.We’re nearly constantly assessing how things went and making adjustments for an even better future. There is even a term for it – EBI’s – Even Better Ifs.

How to Turn Breakdowns Into Breakthroughs

The Storm Has Passed. OK the storm has passed. The fight is over. NOW what?You may want to forget about the fight that just happened, however, as they say, those who do not learn from history are DOOMED TO REPEAT THEMSELVES.

The Power of a Proactive Perspective

The PRO-ACTIVE Perspective. Being proactive and moving TOWARDS what you DO want is a top priority in all the relationship “work” we do.It takes focus, education, intention and attention to be PRO-ACTIVE and move TOWARDS, because as humans, we are designed AND conditioned to react to what’s coming at you and either move away or lash out.



Let’s Talk Love!

Free Consultation Call