It’s a P3 party! Enjoy a parade of articles, stories, updates and musings on all things Playful, Peaceful and Passionate in relationship. Read up on the most fun and useful tips for keeping the fights clean and the sex dirty and turning the relationship you have into the one you REALLY want.

Argument Even-Better-If-ing

Move On or Move FORWARD? That was NO fun at all! Arguing rarely is, right? It might have even gotten a little ugly there for a moment too. Yet you made it to the other side.Or did you?Now that the fight is “over,” if you’re like most people, you’re just glad it’s over, grateful you managed to get through it. Now you just want to put it behind you, forget about it and MOVE ON.

YES Them

Say ItTry this. Read this out loud.Yes. Yeeeeeeees. Yesssssssss. YES!Now this one…No. Nooooooooooo. Nnnnnnnnnno. NO!Which one feels better on your lips and in your body?

6 Little Words to Save A So-So Moment From Turning So, So Ugly

A Big, Ugly Fight – Over Nothing!A few years ago, Raj & I got into a big, ugly fight. Over NOTHING! He had been having a heavy load of technology hurdles (our 2nd greatest contributor to an argument emerging, right after #1, which is getting hangry), and was feeling quite stressed, frustrated and distracted. I was about to leave town for four days for a retreat with a nonprofit board I was on.

Booty Before Breki

Stale, Predictable & BoringOne of the most common complaints we hear when someone is unsatisfied with their sexlife with their beloved is that it can, little by little, get stale, predictable, and some even say, boring.

The Noose of Negativity & The Drama-Free Diet

The Noose of Negativity. Negativity is the 2nd WORST thing that you can do to harm your relationship (More on #1 here). Indulge in negativity and you are putting a noose around your relationship’s neck!It’s not the big things that bring a relationship down, rather, it’s the day-to-day dynamic between you and your beloved that will determine the success of your relationship.

Building Trust For Better Sex

Early & Often. Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction ever begins. If you invest a little intention, attention and action early and often, the baby step actions can lead to a tidal wave of positive impact on the intimacy and sexiness in your relationship.

The Shared Relationship Vision Exercise

The Squeaky Wheel. The squeaky wheel gets the grease, right?That’s why we tend to NOT give our relationship much attention until it DEMANDS it from us.How squeaky does YOUR relationship wheel have to get before you to DO SOMETHING?

The Pleasure and Power of “Post-Play”

Ride That Wave ALL The Way In. I grew up spending my summers on the beach nearly all day, every day. I used to boogie board – A LOT.One of my favorite parts of boogie boarding was riding the wave all the way to the shore. I wanted to savor the ride, and I would pump the board up and down to get every last bit of the fun that I could.

An End to Often, Extreme & Long Lasting Fights

NOW What?! The storm has passed. The fight is over. You survived.NOW what?!You may want to forget about the fight that just happened and “move on”, however, as they say, those who do not learn from history are DOOMED TO REPEAT THEMSELVES.So HOW do you lean into the lessons?After an argument, don’t just get PAST it, get the MOST out of it!

How To Lead AND Listen, Be Forceful AND Loving

Context is KING! Before you dive into delicious sex, decide what you REALLY want and what is the CONTEXT for your most INTIMATE INTERACTIONS.Is your unsatisfying sex life just one more thing on the long list of things you can be irked with your beloved about? Or is your sexlife an inspiring arena to play, learn and grow together?

How To Pull Your Argument Escape Hatch

Logic Will Get You NOWHERE. When you’re in an argument with your beloved and in the heat of it, LOGIC, REASON & PROBLEM SOLVING won’t do you very much good AT ALL.They can even be like gasoline to a fire – EXPLOSIVE!

Set & Setting Are EVERYTHING

Set & Setting Are EVERYTHING! I’m not into psychedelics, but I sure am into super satisfying sex!Still, you can learn a lot about how to have super-satisfying-sex by taking a lesson out of the psychedelic handbook.“Set and setting” is EVERYTHING.

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