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Ep 8.8: “8 Purposeful and Playful-Sexy-Time Practices”

Sure foreplay is important, but don’t forget about the POST-PLAY too!

That juicy time just after getting it on, (and even into the next day), is precious and powerful. If you bring presence, purpose and play to this post-sexy-time-period, you’ll find that the intimate experience you just had together can turn into a RIPPLE EFFECT of connection, sexiness and general goodwill that impacts your happiness not only in the bedroom, but in your day-to-day lives as well.

Join Raj & me along with our special guest Lila Donnolo as we explore How to Keep the Sex Dirty – AFTER, “8 Purposeful and Playful-Sexy-Time Practices”

Special Guests Bio: Lila Donnolo is a founding member of Hacienda Villa, the sex-positive intentional community in Bushwick, Brooklyn. She serves as the Villa’s Director of PR and Community Outreach. The article she wrote as an intro to Villa life, “You Call It A Sex House, I Call It Home,” was published in BUST Magazine. She is a writer, an actress, and a podcaster. “horizontal with lila,” the podcast about intimacy that’s recorded while lying down, was inspired largely by conversations with her housemates. Many horizontal episodes are recorded in her bed at the Villa. On horizontal, Lila and her guest exchange intimacies that most people don’t even share after sex, and welcome the listener to eavesdrop on their private conversations. They talk about family and bodies and sex and heartbreak, grief and growth and how humans relate. She curates a Horizontal Storytelling live show / pajama party series at Hacienda Studio. Her BFA with Honors in Drama is from NYU’s Tisch School of the Arts, and her mission is to cultivate intimacy in all its forms.

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