Sarah & Sean – Portland, OR

❝ Gaby and Raj’s teaching style is so fun, and the most thorough I’ve ever experienced. They don’t stop at tips and pointers. They go deep into what makes an amazing partnership and how to avoid the stumbling blocks to getting there.

Jasmine & Tobin – Northampton, MA

❝ Most relationship work is heavy, dramatic and complaint focused, but with Gaby and Raj it’s refreshingly light, fun and focused on what we REALLY want. Gaby & Raj are deeply committed to, and uniquely talented at, helping couples consciously create a joyous, fun, sexy, vibrant relationship.

Michael & Lara – Los Angeles, CA

❝ Thank you to the moon and back. We had the most moving and loving time. Your guidance is smart, trustworthy, real and not too “woo woo.” We feel a HUGE weight off our shoulders and are excited by our relationship again.

Ep. 4.5: Ditch the Dispute and Dive Into Delight

“It’s getting heated in here” Is VERY different from, “It’s getting hot in here!” Heated argument, yuck. Hot sexy-time, yum! One makes you want to take your clothes off, the other makes you want to pull your hair out – VERY different, right?

In a heated, ugly argument, the stakes are high, the dynamic is volatile and the outcome is often costly, if not devastating. Don’t let your conscious, compassionate, big-picture brain get hijacked by your reactive, defensive, fight-or-flight “lower brain.”

Consider the costs of a heated argument – the kind that creeps up quickly, gets big and ugly fast and afterwards leaves you wondering, “What the hell just happened?!” Now consider the benefits of learning even a a few new tips, tools and techniques for how to put an end to an argument right in the middle of it.

Join special guests Candice Holdorf & Adam Gordon as we discuss How to Keep the Fights Clean – DURING, “Ditch the Dispute and Dive Into Delight.”

Special Guest Bio: Adam coaches people who want to strengthen and deepen their relationships by helping them communicate with their friends, colleagues and partners in a way that changes conflict into greater connection. He is a graduate of the Transformational Coaching and Leadership Training, certified as a facilitator by The Circling Institute where he has been a course leader for three years, and is the founder and ceo of Oxygen Massage Therapy–a seven figure clinical massage practice in San Francisco with three locations and 25 employees. For more information on Adam, please visit:

Candice is the founder of “The Orgasmic Life,” she is dedicated to helping people delve into the taboo places in their lives so that they can find joy and freedom. She’s boldly honest, yet compassionate and open-minded. She’s a certified coach, One Taste OM trainer and yoga teacher. She is also a performer and writer with a focus on sexuality, marriage, eating disorders, and entering womanhood through the lens of orgasmic living. For more information on Candice, please visit:

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