How to Have Your Relationship Be Awesome on Automatic

3 Steps to Relationship Reflection

Rigor, Rest and Relationship

Four Steps to a Proactive Relationship

Living the Love Trifecta

  Your Action Option Should You Choose To Accept It… Set reminders in your calendars for the Play, Peace, and Passion seasons. As a season starts, pick a goal/game to take on (together or on your own if needed). Pick your prompts and post them so you keep your goals/games visible. Take action toward your […]

Five Fun Steps to Let Go of Being Right and Lean into Being Love

10 Dos and Don’ts for Turning Crappy Communication Into Quality Connection

6 Options for Shifting Out of Anger and into Intimacy

Conflict Creeps In Oooooh, here it comes. You can feel an argument brewing. The conflict is creeping in. You see it coming and you WANT to stop it, but you’re not sure how… What do YOU do? Get quiet? Lash out? Get even? Withhold? Biting Tongue Whether you repress it all and bite your tongue […]

Both is Better Than One

Do you ever fight repeatedly about something fairly stupid but you both seem to care A LOT about? This one is a bit embarrassing, but it’s real and current.And I hope it inspires others to find a way to have an argument turn into intimacy and compromise become SYNERGY.We’ve used our PEACE PRACTICE of BOTH IS BETTER THAN ONE to go from a repeat aggravation between us to an up-leveling of intimacy.

“The 4 Steps to a Successful Relationship”

Intimacy or Irritation? If you want a successful relationship, it takes INTENTION, ATTENTION and ACTION. Awesome intimacy doesn’t happen by default. The default in a relationship for most couples is to let layers of let downs build up until there’s a Relationship Residue so thick, intimacy turns to irritation and eventually irreconcilable differences.