Context is KING! Before you dive into delicious sex, decide what you REALLY want and what is the CONTEXT for your most INTIMATE INTERACTIONS.Is your unsatisfying sex life just one more thing on the long list of things you can be irked with your beloved about? Or is your sexlife an inspiring arena to play, learn and grow together?
Set & Setting Are EVERYTHING! I’m not into psychedelics, but I sure am into super satisfying sex!Still, you can learn a lot about how to have super-satisfying-sex by taking a lesson out of the psychedelic handbook.“Set and setting” is EVERYTHING.
Tend to Your Garden, Or Weeds WILL Grow. Seduction starts WAY earlier than most think. The way you relate to your partner ALL-DAY-LONG creates your relationship environment.
Even-Better–IF-ing. Think of all the places in life we look at what went well, what we loved and what could have worked better.We’re nearly constantly assessing how things went and making adjustments for an even better future. There is even a term for it – EBI’s – Even Better Ifs.
The PRO-ACTIVE Perspective. Being proactive and moving TOWARDS what you DO want is a top priority in all the relationship “work” we do.It takes focus, education, intention and attention to be PRO-ACTIVE and move TOWARDS, because as humans, we are designed AND conditioned to react to what’s coming at you and either move away or lash out.
Stretching into new realms of your sexual relationship can be intimidating, awkward or just uncomfortable. But it’s sooooo worth it. We’ve all heard the stories of couples that have been together for decades and they say the sex just keeps getting better and better. So we know it IS possible.
If you are like most couples, you likely have a full and busy life. A lot to think about, manage, juggle and stretch. Often by the time you get to bed, sex and intimacy might seem a million miles away. The “on ramp” to awesome sex might seem like a long arduous task rather than an easy-access experience you can truly enjoy.
A P3 RELATIONSHIP IS POSSIBLE
Relationships – they’re not all fun and games – but they sure do help!