More Of The Same
Now that 2016 is behind you, what's this coming year going to look like in terms of your love life?
Imagine Dec 31, 2017...
If things keep going like they've been going in your relationship, will that make you happy in 2017 or make you want to pull your hair out?
Right now, is your relationship healthy, happy and hot? Is play, peace and passion present?
Or have fights been killing your connection? Has sex somehow become boring or started to feel like a chore?
Sometimes A Woman Has to Take Charge
The LAST thing you want is to waste another day, let alone another year in an average, upsetting or even infuriating relationship.
PLEASE tell me you’re NOT willing to settle or struggle any longer!
If you were, you wouldn’t be reading this right now, would you? Yet here you are.
We value your time and truly care about your relationship happiness, so we're here to tell you the TRUTH.
Sometimes a woman has to take charge in a relationship. Because let’s face it, when it comes to relationships, YOU’RE the heart of the house. YOU have the TRUE power.
You may want to write this down…
"The heart of the house resides within the feminine"
Now that’s not to say that any of the stress, conflict or lack of passion or intimacy is your fault.
NOT at all!
It’s NOT Your Fault
It’s NOT your fault if your partner comes home, upset about the day. Maybe he’s upset about the traffic. Money. It could be anything.
It’s NOT your fault that life is so busy that you hardly have time to fight, let alone have sex. And somehow fighting seems to come so much more naturally. So sadly, THAT’s what ends up happening in what little time you have together.
Even if things are tough between you two right now and even if the sexy-time isn’t so sexy anymore, the reality is you’re NOT at fault, you’re not a bad person or even a bad partner.
Now it may be true that it's not your fault...
But It Is Your Responsibility
That’s the really great news – It’s not that you're no good at relationship, it’s that relationship and life are just TOUGH!
Still, there’s another side to look at and I need to be completely honest about this right now.
There are subtle behaviors you’re likely doing that can give your partner a form of UNCONSCIOUS PERMISSION to behave the way he's behaving. They actually end up ATTRACTING that very quality that’s upsetting you right now.
This isn’t your fault, BUT it is your responsibility.
Plus, when you’re willing to decode YOUR sabotaging behavior and shift YOUR patterns, then his actions will start to change as well. Really!
His actions are HIS own responsibility, however these techniques will change you so much, that soon you’ll notice that he’ll begin to change right before your very eyes.
It's Not Just THIS Relationship At Stake
If you don’t resolve your relationship hurdles now, it’s not just THIS relationship that’s at stake.
It’s EVERY relationship you’ll ever have. And not just your romantic relationship either. This will seriously affect your friendships and family relationships too.
If you don’t resolve this NOW... Well, wherever YOU go, there YOU are! So you’re just going to carry these unconscious unhealthy habits over into your next relationship.
And the cycle of settling and suffering continues.
Taking responsibility for the quality of your relationship sounds like a great idea, yet it can often seem like sooooo much WORK.
Maybe you often get irritated. Or maybe he’s quick to get angry. You likely both feel unappreciated, drained, cranky.
And when it comes to keeping it hot, you each expect the other to be the one to initiate if romance or intimacy has ANY chance of happening.
Or maybe you're more the type to hold it all inside. Do you find yourself walking around on eggshells, hoping and trying to avoid that next pointless and painful fight?
Maybe you’re even tip-toeing around, occasionally attempting to initiate a connection, yet never getting into true intimacy or anything even remotely resembling sexy-time.
If this sounds at all familiar then it's time to get super straight with yourself and ask…
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Right now, you have a choice to make. It’s the age-old question “Should I stay or should I go?”
- Choice #1). You make the relationship work and SOLVE the problems.
- Choice #2). You figure out this is NOT the relationship for you and move on.
Either way, it’s those SAME habits that need to be broken down and new ones built up.
The same discovering, learning and growing will be necessary no matter what.
Learning the tips, tools and techniques for QUALITY communication and REGULARLY exploring how you can better "Keep the Fights Clean & the Sex Dirty" are critical to a healthy, happy and hot relationship.
It’s waaaaaaaaay too easy and sadly all too common for couples to “play dirty” when it comes to fights and then play way too “clean” when it comes to sex. They’re being “nasty” in all the wrong places!
Save Being Nasty for Your Sex-Life
If anything in your relationship is going to be dirty, PLEASE let it be the sex! As we like to say here at Relationship Fun & Games, “save being nasty for your sex-life!”
Maybe you’re fighting has gotten "dirty" and your sexy-time has become "clean" boring, predictable or worse - rare.
If you’re settling or suffering in your intimate relationship right now, the reason is likely because all the energy you’re putting into fighting is totally draining your sexual batteries, leaving nothing left for the GOOD stuff!
But that's GREAT news! Because when you take the energy out of your fights, that energy needs a place to go and can naturally spill into your intimacy getting AWESOME.
You CAN turn conflict into connection and channel any of that misdirected energy (currently wasted on dirty fighting), directly into your sexy-time being that much more sexy - just by using..."
- One little known technique pioneered by a relationship legend that works so well, if it doesn’t work, re-read the directions and do a do-over. It’s THAT good.
- A simple 3 minute practice that allows you to turn a fight off –almost like it was a light switch.
- A revolutionary blueprint to follow that has you both feel truly heard.
- A time tested tool to teach you how to turn complaints into requests that your partner will be eager to meet.
And much more!
If you want to up-level your love life with revolutionary relationship and communication skills, then...
You Need to Know These Subtle Secrets
This information is too important not to share, so here’s a FREE Virtual Class to make it as easily accessible as possible for you.
Invite your partner to come, or come on your own. Remember... “The heart of the house resides within the feminine.”
Just join Raj & me along with other women (and couples too), who want to be better partners, lovers and just step into a new level of love in their relationships.
We’re here to show you how to make it so your relationship doesn’t just survive, but THRIVES.
Join us in this FREE Virtual Class on the, "3 Key Communication Skills to Kill Conflict and Create Connection."
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Now if you’re saying to yourself, "I have to check with my partner and see if he’s even into it"….Stop right there. We get it. You want to do this TOGETHER, still, there are some decisions YOU will have to make on your own.
Again, it’s NOT your fault, but it IS your responsibility.
YOU have the ability to respond, so do it NOW before it’s too late. Don't let a relationship rut become too big a hole to dig yourself out of!
By coming to this FREE virtual class you’re doing something to help yourself, and at the same time, to help your partner as well as your relationship.
What man wouldn’t want to hear that his woman is taking responsibility for creating a more playful, peaceful and passionate relationship!?