How to Keep the Fights Clean & the Sex Dirty

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Welcome to the FAST TRACK Episode Library. Your eagerness to get your hot little hands on the 8 most awesome interviews ALL at once is inspiring. Go for it! Watch these 8 videos, pick even just one tip per video to apply until it becomes a habit and you will be astounded with just how fast a shift can occur.

And don’t worry about doing this alone. If your beloved not yet as inspired and motivated as you are, or aren’t even around, when YOU learn new skills, the cues change and so does the dynamic. Plus you CAN’T change anyone so stick to how YOU can grow. Now we know this may seem easier said than done.

So we’re here to make it easy and fun for you to find, learn and apply the tips, tool and techniques that you need most, WHEN you need them the most.

To do this, we’ve selected the very best episode for each of the 8 core topics of Keeping the Fights Clean: Before / As It Starts / During / After; and Keeping the Sex Dirty: Before / As It Starts / During / After. Go in order, jump around, pick the topics that most apply to YOUR relationship right now.

Just dive in where you’re most inspired. Imperfect, inspired ACTION is what matters most right now!

Where “Keeping the Fights Clean
& the Sex Dirty” All Started

The day we got married, someone told us “All you need to remember for a great marriage is to keep the fights clean and the sex dirty!” We thought that was GREAT advice. And years later, when we surveyed our clients and asked what THEY struggled with the most in their relationship, they all pretty much fell into those two categories. If you know how to “keep it clean” when it comes to fighting and “keep it dirty” when it comes to sex, then you are bound to enjoy a playful, peaceful, passionate relationship.

Learning next level skills for when and how to be nice and when and how to be naughty so you can save being nasty for your sex life is a Relationship Game Changer so all our tips are organized into how to keep the Fights Clean or the Sex Dirty. We also organize these top tips, tools and techniques by WHEN you will need them the most. What you do well BEFORE a fight starts verses when you are IN IT, is VERY different. So all our tips are organized by what the best tip is for the juuuust the right moment.

Keeping the Fights Clean

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How to turn repeat, extreme and long lasting fights into rare, mild and shortlived ones.
Had enough of argument exhaustion and being emotionally starved?
Learn how to keep the fights clean now!

BEFORE

It’s what you do well before any fights flare up that will dictate how OFTEN you fight, how BAD it gets and how LONG it lasts. INVEST even a little intention, attention and action BEFORE any problems surface and avoid it being DEMANDED of you later.

AS IT STARTS

Put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining NOW! STOP that argument in it’s tracks, tame the tension and turn what WAS well on it’s way to upset and separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy, bringing you CLOSER than you were before any tension had started.

DURING

In a heated, ugly argument, the stakes are high, the dynamic is volatile and the outcome is often costly, if not devastating. Don’t let your conscious, compassionate, big-picture brain get hijacked by your reactive, defensive, fight-or-flight “lower brain.”

AFTER

You got upset and argued. You might have even let it get a bit ugly. Still, you managed to get through it. NOW WHAT? Don’t just move on, move FORWARD. You CAN turn an argument into intimacy or a breakdown into a breakthrough.

Keeping the Sex Dirty

How to turn distractions, boredom, and blocks into intention, excitement and bliss.
Had enough separateness, feeling lonely (even when you’re together) and stale,
predictible sex (if much of any at all!)? Learn how to keep the sex dirty now!

BEFORE

Ever heard of 24 Hour Foreplay? Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction even begins. Baby step actions can lead to tidal wave impact so show even just a little love (and lust), early and often to keep it healthy, happy and hot!

AS IT STARTS

Stale, predictable and even boring are the most common words I hear from couples describing their sexual hurdles. Keeping it fresh, fun and flirty is a VERY good idea for any couple. Learn what a little focus on timing, temptation and teasing can do for YOUR relationship.

DURING

Don’t let the hot coals of passion cool, turn to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sex-life just keeps getting better and better. Best-Eva-Sexy-Time is NOT behind you!

AFTER

You might think the “deed is done,” but is it, really? Scoop up all that yummy post orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill so you just keep getting closer and closer and the sex just keeps getting better and better.

Fights Clean
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Video #1 Fights Clean – BEFORE, with Gaby & Raj:

It’s what you do day-to-day, well BEFORE any fights flare up that will dictate how OFTEN you fight, how BAD it gets and how LONG it lasts. GIVE even a little intention, attention, and action BEFORE any problems surface and then DEMAND it from you. If you’re fed up with your FRICTION FACTORS, there IS a way out – learn how to turn Friction Factors into Peace Practices.

Video #2 Fights Clean – AS IT STARTS, with Andy & Libby:

You can STOP that argument in it’s tracks, tame the tension and EVEN turn what WAS well on it’s way to upset and ultimately, separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy. Dive into the “Drama-Free-Diet” that puts an end to complaining, blaming and shaming and even brings you CLOSER than you were before any tension even started. PLUS get top tips from the young yet wildly wise couple, Libby Payne & Andy Drish!

Video #3 Fights Clean – DURING, with Antonia & Joel:

A heated, ugly argument is a dangerous way to “communicate.” The stakes are high, the dynamic is volatile and the outcome is often costly, if not devastating. Don’t let your conscious, big-picture, frontal lobe get hijacked by your reactive, defensive, focused-only-in-the-moment, fight-or-flight “lower brain.” Tired of the tension, bickering or even outright fighting? Had enough of being exhausted by repetitive upsets? Check out our quick, easy-access tips and techniques to tame triggers and end an argument in an instant with “Argument Escape Hatches.” Enjoy a new level of trust, intimacy, & joy unknown before.

Video #4 Fights Clean – AFTER, with Bryan & Jennifer:

The storm has passed. The fight is over. You survived. NOW what?! After an argument, don’t just get PAST it, get the MOST out of it! Become a Fabulous Fighter TODAY and turn your recurring, extreme and long lasting fights into RARE, MILD and SHORT ones. Get in on this awesome exploration so you CAN turn any argument into instant intimacy. Get in on this awesome exploration of Fabulous Fighting with Bryan Franklin and Jennifer Russell.

Sex Dirty
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Video #5 Sex Dirty – BEFORE, with Mia Cara:

The way you relate to your partner ALL-DAY-LONG-EVERYDAY creates the relationship environment that will determine if you have a hot and healthy sex-life or unsatisfying/next to non-existent one. Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction even begins. The magnificent Mia Cara shares her top insights as a master in energetics that specializes in “sensual restraint.” She’s one of the classiest & most caring women you could ever meet with wonderful wisdom that will knock your socks off!

Video #6 Sex Dirty – AS IT STARTS, with Alex Allman:

Man-o-man, this is a GOOOOD one! One of the most common complaints around a lack of satisfying sexy-time is that it gets stale, predictable, or even boring. Yuck! Even if your sexy-time is far from boring, keeping it fresh, fun & flirty is a VERY good idea. Only good things can come of it! Set yourselves up for super satisfying sexiness! Check out these quick, simple, fun ways to bring sexy back by creating a sense of openness, curiosity and adventure.

Video #7 Sex Dirty – DURING, with Rose & Jon:

Best-Eva-Sexy-Time (B.E.S.T.) is NOT behind you! Don’t let the hot coals of passion cool to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sex-life just keeps getting better and better.  It’s time for a libido lift! Learn how to lead lustfully while listening lovingly as we get to the nitty-gritty-down-and-dirty of what works when it comes to super satisfying “best-eva-sexy-time.” Get an education in how to escalate arousal, and intensify intimacy with Rose Cole & Jon Benson.

Video #8 Sex Dirty – AFTER, with Destin & Prana:

The deed is “done,” but is it REALLY? Not at all! Ride that wave of romance and passion ALL the way to shore and you’ll intensify your intimacy in the bedroom and WELL BEYOND. Learn how to scoop up all that yummy post-orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill in the after-glow so you just keep getting closer and closer and the sex just keeps getting better and better.  Explore the AFTER adventure with Destin Gerek and his beloved, Ellie Prana.