How to Keep the Fights Clean & the Sex Dirty

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It's time to stop fighting and start flirting. It’s time to stop BEING busy and start GETTING busy. FCSD TV is here to make it easy and fun.

Where "Keeping the Fights Clean
& the Sex Dirty" All Started

The day we got married, someone told us "All you need to remember for a great marriage is to keep the fights clean and the sex dirty!" We thought that was GREAT advice. And years later, when we surveyed our clients and asked what THEY struggled with the most in their relationship, they all pretty much fell into those two categories. If you know how to "keep it clean" when it comes to fighting and "keep it dirty" when it comes to sex, then you are bound to enjoy a playful, peaceful, passionate relationship.

Learning next level skills for when and how to be nice and when and how to be naughty so you can save being nasty for your sex life is a Relationship Game Changer so all our tips are organized into how to keep the Fights Clean or the Sex Dirty. We also organize these top tips, tools and techniques by WHEN you will need them the most. What you do well BEFORE a fight starts verses when you are IN IT, is VERY different. So all our tips are organized by what the best tip is for the juuuust the right moment.

Keeping the Fights Clean

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How to turn repeat, extreme and long lasting fights into rare, mild and shortlived ones.
Had enough of argument exhaustion and being emotionally starved?
Learn how to keep the fights clean now!

BEFORE

It's what you do well before any fights flare up that will dictate how OFTEN you fight, how BAD it gets and how LONG it lasts. INVEST even a little intention, attention and action BEFORE any problems surface and avoid it being DEMANDED of you later.

AS IT STARTS

Put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining NOW! STOP that argument in it's tracks, tame the tension and turn what WAS well on it's way to upset and separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy, bringing you CLOSER than you were before any tension had started.

DURING

In a heated, ugly argument, the stakes are high, the dynamic is volatile and the outcome is often costly, if not devastating. Don’t let your conscious, compassionate, big-picture brain get hijacked by your reactive, defensive, fight-or-flight “lower brain.”

AFTER

You got upset and argued. You might have even let it get a bit ugly. Still, you managed to get through it. NOW WHAT? Don't just move on, move FORWARD. You CAN turn an argument into intimacy or a breakdown into a breakthrough.

Keeping the Sex Dirty

How to turn distractions, boredom, and blocks into intention, excitement and bliss.
Had enough separateness, feeling lonely (even when you're together) and stale,
predictible sex (if much of any at all!)? Learn how to keep the sex dirty now!

BEFORE

Ever heard of 24 Hour Foreplay? Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction even begins. Baby step actions can lead to tidal wave impact so show even just a little love (and lust), early and often to keep it healthy, happy and hot!

AS IT STARTS

Stale, predictable and even boring are the most common words I hear from couples describing their sexual hurdles. Keeping it fresh, fun and flirty is a VERY good idea for any couple. Learn what a little focus on timing, temptation and teasing can do for YOUR relationship.

DURING

Don't let the hot coals of passion cool, turn to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sex-life just keeps getting better and better. Best-Eva-Sexy-Time is NOT behind you!

AFTER

You might think the “deed is done,” but is it, really? Scoop up all that yummy post orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill so you just keep getting closer and closer and the sex just keeps getting better and better.

Upcoming Season #5
THE SEASON OF PEACE

Season 5 is the Season of PEACE. Come October, you'd better freshen up on your "lightening-up" skills before the holidays are upon you and your relationship suffers from those trying times.

We want to help you have fun, enjoy the holiday spirit, and be a sanctuary for each other no matter if time is scarce, money is tight, kids are complaining or other's expectations are unreasonable. You've got this! And it CAN be the BEST holiday season EVER.

While we will cycle through the eight core FCSDTV topics (Fights Clean: Before, As It Starts, During & After and Sex Dirty: Before, As It Starts, During & After), each episode this season will bring extra focus on how to bring more PEACE to your relationship.

These awesome, informative and inspiring interviewees include the founders of Conscious Lifestyle Magazine Justin Faerman & Meghan McDonald, famed coaches and fantastic couple, as well as Marci Lock & her beloved Dallas Cyrus and many more (Stay tuned as we announce Season 5 interviewees and let us know if there is someone YOU want to see on the show).

Expect to laugh, learn and love yourself and your beloved more with every episode! Season 5 runs from October 19th to December 14th!

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Ep. 5.8 with Special Guests Tani & Leslie

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You might think the “deed is done,” but is it, really? Scoop up all that yummy post orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill so you just keep getting closer and closer and the sex just keeps getting better and better. Join guests Leslie Rogers & Tani Thole as we explore How to Keep the Sex Dirty – AFTER, "Praise to the Power of the Post Orgasmic Chill."

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Ep. 5.1 with Special Guests Tim & Ness

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It's what you do well before any fights flare up that will dictate how OFTEN you fight, how BAD it gets and how LONG it lasts. INVEST even a little intention, attention and action BEFORE any problems surface and avoid it being DEMANDED of you later. Join Time & Ness as we explore, "Bye-Bye Friction Factors, Hello Peace Practices."
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Ep. 5.2 with Special Guests Marci & Dallas

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Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction even begins. Baby step actions can lead to tidal wave impact so show even just a little love (and lust), early and often to keep it healthy, happy and hot! Enough of the autopilot, it's time for arousal! Join Marci Lock & Dallas Cyr as we explore "How to Create Easy Access to Awesome Intimacy."
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Ep. 5.3 with Special Guests Scott & Sacha

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"Put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining NOW! STOP that argument in it's tracks, tame the tension and turn what WAS well on it's way to upset and separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy, bringing you CLOSER than you were before any tension had started. Join Scott & Sacha as we explore "Early Alert Systems for Avoiding Unnecessary Arguments."
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Ep. 5.4 with Special Guests Susan & Tim Bratton

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Stale, predictable and even boring are the most common words I hear from couples describing their sexual hurdles. Keeping it fresh, fun and flirty is a VERY good idea for any couple. Learn what a little focus on timing, temptation and teasing can do for YOUR relationship. Join Susan & Tim Bratton as we explore, how to "Set Yourself Up for Sexiness."
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Ep. 5.5 with Special Guest Annie Lalla

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When we fight with our beloved, one thing is clear: we care deeply about something. This is a reason to fight passionately, but it can also be a reason to love just as passionately. By taking blame off the table, every fight is an opportunity for deeper intimacy. Join special guests Annie Lalla as we discuss How to Keep the Fights Clean, DURING: "How to Get Out of An Argument and Into An Alliance "
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Ep. 5.6 with Special Guests Rono & Sierra

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Don't let the hot coals of passion cool, turn to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sex-life just keeps getting better and better. Best-Eva-Sexy-Time is NOT behind you! Join Rono Smith & Sierra Sullivan along with Raj & I as we dive deep into How to Keep the Sex Dirty DURING – "How to Steer Clear of Stale & Predictable Sexy-Time, Every Time."
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Ep. 5.7 with Special Guests Meghan & Justin

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You got upset and argued. You might have even let it get a bit ugly. Still, you managed to get through it. NOW WHAT? Don't just move on, move FORWARD. You CAN turn an argument into intimacy or a breakdown into a breakthrough. Join Meghan McDonald & Justin Faerman as we dive deep into How to Keep the Fights Clean, AFTER– "How to Turn Every Breakdown Into a Breakthrough."

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Keeping the Fights Clean

How to turn repeat, extreme and long lasting fights into rare, mild and shortlived ones.
Had enough of argument exhaustion and being emotionally starved? Learn how to keep the fights clean now!

Fights-Clean-Steps-Circle-(Before)

It's what you do well before any fights flare up that will dictate how OFTEN you fight, how BAD it gets and how LONG it lasts.
INVEST even a little intention, attention and action BEFORE any problems surface and avoid it being DEMANDED of you later.!

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AS IT STARTS

Put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining NOW! STOP that argument in it's tracks, tame the tension and turn what WAS well on it's way to upset and separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy, bringing you CLOSER than you were before any tension had started.

DURING

In a heated, ugly argument, the stakes are high, the dynamic is volatile and the outcome is often costly, if not devastating. Don’t let your conscious, compassionate, big-picture brain get hijacked by your reactive, defensive, fight-or-flight “lower brain.”

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AFTER

You got upset and argued. You might have even let it get a bit ugly. Still, you managed to get through it. NOW WHAT? Don't just move on, move FORWARD. You CAN turn an argument into intimacy or a breakdown into a breakthrough.

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Keeping the Sex Dirty

How to turn distractions, boredom, and blocks into intention, excitement and bliss. Had enough
separateness, feeling lonely (even when you're together) and stale, predictible sex (if much of any at all!)?
Learn how to keep the sex dirty now!

Ever heard of 24 Hour Foreplay? Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction even begins. Baby step actions can lead
to tidal wave impact so show even just a little love (and lust), early and often to keep it healthy, happy and hot!

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AS IT STARTS

Stale, predictible and even boring are the most common words I hear from couples describing their sexual hurdles. Keeping it fresh, fun and flirty is a VERY good idea for any couple. Learn what a little focus on timing, temptation and teasing can do for YOUR relationship.

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DURING

Don't let the hot coals of passion cool, turn to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sexlife just keeps getting better and better. Best-Eva-Sexy-Time is NOT behind you!

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AFTER

You might think the “deed is done,” but is it, really? Scoop up all that yummy post orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill so you just keep getting closer and closer and the sex just keeps getting better and better.

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