How to Keep the Fights Clean & the Sex Dirty

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It’s time to stop fighting and start flirting. It’s time to stop BEING busy and start GETTING busy. FCSD TV is here to make it easy and fun.

Where “Keeping the Fights Clean
& the Sex Dirty” All Started

The day we got married, someone told us “All you need to remember for a great marriage is to keep the fights clean and the sex dirty!” We thought that was GREAT advice. And years later, when we surveyed our clients and asked what THEY struggled with the most in their relationship, they all pretty much fell into those two categories. If you know how to “keep it clean” when it comes to fighting and “keep it dirty” when it comes to sex, then you are bound to enjoy a playful, peaceful, passionate relationship.

Learning next level skills for when and how to be nice and when and how to be naughty so you can save being nasty for your sex life is a Relationship Game Changer so all our tips are organized into how to keep the Fights Clean or the Sex Dirty. We also organize these top tips, tools and techniques by WHEN you will need them the most. What you do well BEFORE a fight starts verses when you are IN IT, is VERY different. So all our tips are organized by what the best tip is for the juuuust the right moment.

Keeping the Fights Clean

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How to turn repeat, extreme and long lasting fights into rare, mild and shortlived ones.
Had enough of argument exhaustion and being emotionally starved?
Learn how to keep the fights clean now!

BEFORE

It’s what you do well before any fights flare up that will dictate how OFTEN you fight, how BAD it gets and how LONG it lasts. INVEST even a little intention, attention and action BEFORE any problems surface and avoid it being DEMANDED of you later.

AS IT STARTS

Put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining NOW! STOP that argument in it’s tracks, tame the tension and turn what WAS well on it’s way to upset and separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy, bringing you CLOSER than you were before any tension had started.

DURING

In a heated, ugly argument, the stakes are high, the dynamic is volatile and the outcome is often costly, if not devastating. Don’t let your conscious, compassionate, big-picture brain get hijacked by your reactive, defensive, fight-or-flight “lower brain.”

AFTER

You got upset and argued. You might have even let it get a bit ugly. Still, you managed to get through it. NOW WHAT? Don’t just move on, move FORWARD. You CAN turn an argument into intimacy or a breakdown into a breakthrough.

Keeping the Sex Dirty

How to turn distractions, boredom, and blocks into intention, excitement and bliss.
Had enough separateness, feeling lonely (even when you’re together) and stale,
predictible sex (if much of any at all!)? Learn how to keep the sex dirty now!

BEFORE

Ever heard of 24 Hour Foreplay? Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction even begins. Baby step actions can lead to tidal wave impact so show even just a little love (and lust), early and often to keep it healthy, happy and hot!

AS IT STARTS

Stale, predictable and even boring are the most common words I hear from couples describing their sexual hurdles. Keeping it fresh, fun and flirty is a VERY good idea for any couple. Learn what a little focus on timing, temptation and teasing can do for YOUR relationship.

DURING

Don’t let the hot coals of passion cool, turn to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sex-life just keeps getting better and better. Best-Eva-Sexy-Time is NOT behind you!

AFTER

You might think the “deed is done,” but is it, really? Scoop up all that yummy post orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill so you just keep getting closer and closer and the sex just keeps getting better and better.

Season #8
THE SEASON OF PASSION

Season 8 is the Season of PASSION. It is ALL about looking at how to turn UP the passion when it comes to sexy-time, yet turn DOWN the passion when feisty-fighting.

Save the HEAT for the healthy-happy-hot-sex-life! You’ve got this! And it CAN be the BEST year on your RELATIONSHIP.

While we will cycle through the eight core FCSDTV topics (Fights Clean: Before, As It Starts, During & After and Sex Dirty: Before, As It Starts, During & After), each episode this season will bring extra focus on how to bring more PASSION to your relationship.

Interact with educated, experienced, entertaining specialists in the relationship realm. And nearly ALL of our interviewees are couples, even if their beloved is not also an expert.  That way you won’t hear just theory or good ideas, you’ll get to SEE for yourself. The proof is in the unspoken pudding! (And stay tuned for upcoming announcements on the Awesome Interviewees we’ve got in store for you this season.)

Expect to laugh, learn and love yourself and your beloved more with every episode! Season 8 runs from February 13th to April 3rd!

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Ep. 8.3 With Morgan & Rob

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Put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining NOW! STOP that argument in it's tracks, tame the tension and turn what WAS well on it's way to upset and separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy, bringing you CLOSER than you were before any tension had started. Join Robert Kandell & Morgan Mellas as we explore "Early Alert Systems for Avoiding Unnecessary Arguments"

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Ep. 7.8 With Ria & Kenny

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The deed is “done,” but IS IT? Not at all! Ride that wave of romance and passion ALL the way to shore and you’ll intensify your intimacy in the bedroom and WELL BEYOND. Join us as we explore How to Keep the SexDirty – AFTER: "The Pleasure and Power of "Post-Play".
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Ep. 7.7 "An End to Often, Extreme & Long Lasting Fights"

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The storm has passed. The fight is over. You've survived. Maybe with some wounds to heal or bridges to cross to return to intimacy and connection. So NOW what?! Learn what to do AFTER a fight to 1. Reconnect and 2. Learn from it so you do better next time. Join us as we explore How to Keep the Fights Clean – AFTER with Makena Sage and Sunny Durante.
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Ep. 7.6 “Top Tips for a Brave, Bold & Blissful Sex Life”

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It’s time for a libido lift! Learn how to lead lustfully while listening lovingly as we get to the nitty-gritty-down-and-dirty of what works when it comes to super satisfying "best-eva-sexy-time". Move beyond being bashful and get in on these top tips for a brave, bold & blissful sex life. Join us as we explore How to Keep the Fights Dirty: DURING with very special guests, Mikki & Nadia Willis. Come get a rare peek into their wonderful words of wisdom to escalate arousal, intensify intimacy and even have your sex life be a community service!
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Ep. 7.5 "How to Turn a Heated Argument into Hot Connection"

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When we fight with our beloved, one thing is clear: we care deeply about something. This is a reason to fight passionately, but it can also be a reason to love just as passionately. By taking blame off the table, every fight is an opportunity for deeper intimacy. Join special guests Antia & Brody Boyd as we discuss How to Keep the Fights Clean, DURING: "How to Turn a Heated Argument into Hot Connection.
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Ep. 7.4 "How to Set the Stage for Best-Eva-Sexy-Time"

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It takes no effort at all to get into an argument. It DOES take effort to avert them. You can make a mountain out of a molehill or a molehill out of a mountain. Your choice. "Set yourselves up for super satisfying sexiness! Check out these quick, simple, fun ways to bring sexy back by creating a sense of openness, curiosity and adventure... so that YOU can be more comfortable, confident and fully expressed in the bedroom (and beyond!). A little forethought can lead to a fabulous sex life."
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Ep. 7.3 "How to Manage Moodiness & Meltdowns "

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It takes no effort at all to get into an argument. It DOES take effort to avert them. You can make a mountain out of a molehill or a molehill out of a mountain. Your choice. If you want to know "How to Avoid Argument On-Ramps", join one of the funnest couples you will ever meet, Jamie Thompson & Clara Zahorsky while we talk about how to take it down a notch and turn those Friction Factors into Peace Practices. "
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Ep. 7.2 "How to Create Easy Access to Awesome Intimacy"

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The way you relate to your partner ALL-DAY-LONG-EVERYDAY creates the relationship environment that will determine if you have a hot and healthy sex life or unsatisfying or next to non-existent one. Join men's coach, Certified Tantra Counselor and Personal Trainer Kevin Anthony and his beloved - Certified Holistic Sexological Bodyworker, Céline Remy as we explore YOUR questions LIVE about How to Keep the Sex Dirty - BEFORE answered.
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Ep. 7.1 "Get READY to Rumble! What To Do BEFORE a Fight Starts So That It Never Actually Does"

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Get rid of the wet-blanket-weight of repetitive arguments. If you're fed up with your FRICTION FACTORS, there IS a way out - Join Gaby and Raj with special guests Katie Roper and Joshua Hathaway as they dish about PEACE PRACTICES and How to Keep the Fights Clean. BEFORE.

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Keeping the Fights Clean

How to turn repeat, extreme and long lasting fights into rare, mild and short-lived ones.
Had enough of argument exhaustion and being emotionally starved? Learn how to keep the fights clean now!

Fights-Clean-Steps-Circle-(Before)

It’s what you do well before any fights flare up that will dictate how OFTEN you fight, how BAD it gets and how LONG it lasts.
INVEST even a little intention, attention and action BEFORE any problems surface and avoid it being DEMANDED of you later.!

AS IT STARTS

Put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining NOW! STOP that argument in it’s tracks, tame the tension and turn what WAS well on it’s way to upset and separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy, bringing you CLOSER than you were before any tension had started.

DURING

In a heated, ugly argument, the stakes are high, the dynamic is volatile and the outcome is often costly, if not devastating. Don’t let your conscious, compassionate, big-picture brain get hijacked by your reactive, defensive, fight-or-flight “lower brain.”

AFTER

You got upset and argued. You might have even let it get a bit ugly. Still, you managed to get through it. NOW WHAT? Don’t just move on, move FORWARD. You CAN turn an argument into intimacy or a breakdown into a breakthrough.

Keeping the Sex Dirty

How to turn distractions, boredom, and blocks into intention, excitement and bliss. Had enough
separateness, feeling lonely (even when you’re together) and stale, predictible sex (if much of any at all!)?
Learn how to keep the sex dirty now!

Ever heard of 24 Hour Foreplay? Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction even begins. Baby step actions can lead
to tidal wave impact so show even just a little love (and lust), early and often to keep it healthy, happy and hot!

AS IT STARTS

Stale, predictible and even boring are the most common words I hear from couples describing their sexual hurdles. Keeping it fresh, fun and flirty is a VERY good idea for any couple. Learn what a little focus on timing, temptation and teasing can do for YOUR relationship.

DURING

Don’t let the hot coals of passion cool, turn to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sex life just keeps getting better and better. Best-Eva-Sexy-Time is NOT behind you!

AFTER

You might think the “deed is done,” but is it, really? Scoop up all that yummy post orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill so you just keep getting closer and closer and the sex just keeps getting better and better.