How to Keep the Fights Clean & the Sex Dirty

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It’s time to stop fighting and start flirting. It’s time to stop BEING busy and start GETTING busy. FCSD TV is here to make it easy and fun.

Where “Keeping the Fights Clean
& the Sex Dirty” All Started

The day we got married, someone told us “All you need to remember for a great marriage is to keep the fights clean and the sex dirty!” We thought that was GREAT advice. And years later, when we surveyed our clients and asked what THEY struggled with the most in their relationship, they all pretty much fell into those two categories. If you know how to “keep it clean” when it comes to fighting and “keep it dirty” when it comes to sex, then you are bound to enjoy a playful, peaceful, passionate relationship.

Learning next level skills for when and how to be nice and when and how to be naughty so you can save being nasty for your sex life is a Relationship Game Changer so all our tips are organized into how to keep the Fights Clean or the Sex Dirty. We also organize these top tips, tools and techniques by WHEN you will need them the most. What you do well BEFORE a fight starts verses when you are IN IT, is VERY different. So all our tips are organized by what the best tip is for the juuuust the right moment.

Keeping the Fights Clean

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How to turn repeat, extreme and long lasting fights into rare, mild and shortlived ones.
Had enough of argument exhaustion and being emotionally starved?
Learn how to keep the fights clean now!

BEFORE

It’s what you do well before any fights flare up that will dictate how OFTEN you fight, how BAD it gets and how LONG it lasts. INVEST even a little intention, attention and action BEFORE any problems surface and avoid it being DEMANDED of you later.

AS IT STARTS

Put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining NOW! STOP that argument in it’s tracks, tame the tension and turn what WAS well on it’s way to upset and separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy, bringing you CLOSER than you were before any tension had started.

DURING

In a heated, ugly argument, the stakes are high, the dynamic is volatile and the outcome is often costly, if not devastating. Don’t let your conscious, compassionate, big-picture brain get hijacked by your reactive, defensive, fight-or-flight “lower brain.”

AFTER

You got upset and argued. You might have even let it get a bit ugly. Still, you managed to get through it. NOW WHAT? Don’t just move on, move FORWARD. You CAN turn an argument into intimacy or a breakdown into a breakthrough.

Keeping the Sex Dirty

How to turn distractions, boredom, and blocks into intention, excitement and bliss.
Had enough separateness, feeling lonely (even when you’re together) and stale,
predictible sex (if much of any at all!)? Learn how to keep the sex dirty now!

BEFORE

Ever heard of 24 Hour Foreplay? Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction even begins. Baby step actions can lead to tidal wave impact so show even just a little love (and lust), early and often to keep it healthy, happy and hot!

AS IT STARTS

Stale, predictable and even boring are the most common words I hear from couples describing their sexual hurdles. Keeping it fresh, fun and flirty is a VERY good idea for any couple. Learn what a little focus on timing, temptation and teasing can do for YOUR relationship.

DURING

Don’t let the hot coals of passion cool, turn to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sex-life just keeps getting better and better. Best-Eva-Sexy-Time is NOT behind you!

AFTER

You might think the “deed is done,” but is it, really? Scoop up all that yummy post orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill so you just keep getting closer and closer and the sex just keeps getting better and better.

Season #10
THE SEASON OF PEACE

Season 10 is the Season of PEACE. Because anyone in a relationship knows, it takes something! A P3 Relationship does NOT happen on its own. You have to actually have the INTENTION to find out what TRANQUIL feels like.

We make this fun, positive and use themes to inspire and motivate us to keep our eyes on the prize and to resist the drain and drudgery of the default way of relating.

Save the HEAT for the healthy-happy-hot-sex-life! You’ve got this! And it CAN be the BEST year on your RELATIONSHIP.

While we will cycle through the eight core FCSDTV topics (Fights Clean: Before, As It Starts, During & After and Sex Dirty: Before, As It Starts, During & After), each episode this season will bring extra focus on how to bring more PLAY to your relationship.

Interact with educated, experienced, entertaining specialists in the relationship realm. And nearly ALL of our interviewees are couples, even if their beloved is not also an expert.  That way you won’t hear just theory or good ideas, you’ll get to SEE for yourself. The proof is in the unspoken pudding! (And stay tuned for upcoming announcements on the Awesome Interviewees we’ve got in store for you this season.)

Expect to laugh, learn and love yourself and your beloved more with every episode! Season 10 runs from September 25th to November 13th!

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Ep. 10.8 With Alexandra Jamieson & Bob Gower

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If you want next time to be closer to your nirvana then get clued in to the keys to quality communication that turns the ho-hum into hubba-hubba! Join Alexandra Jamieson & Bob Gower as we talk about How to Keep the Sex Dirty: AFTER: "How to Guarantee Sexy-Time Keeps Getting Sexier".

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Ep. 10.8 With Alexandra Jamieson & Bob Gower

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If you want next time to be closer to your nirvana then get clued in to the keys to quality communication that turns the ho-hum into hubba-hubba! Join Alexandra Jamieson & Bob Gower as we talk about How to Keep the Sex Dirty: AFTER: "How to Guarantee Sexy-Time Keeps Getting Sexier".
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Ep. 10.7 With Rachel & Kyle Wright

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The fury of the fight may have passed, but are you moving on or moving FORWARD? Learn how to reflect on any rifts so that your arguments can lead you to greater intimacy rather than pull you apart. Discover the magic and joy of turning feelings of frustration into a fulfilling future. Join us along with Rachel and Kyle Wright as we explore "How to Turn An Argument Into Intimacy".
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Ep. 10.6 With Dr. Alison Ash

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Champ-Quality Pussy Eating is possible through the pleasure loop of clear communication and connected collaboration. Join Dr Alison Ash for How to Keep the Sex Dirty: DURING "The Ins and Outs of Quality Cunnilingus". Learn about the 4 nerve pathways to orgasm, how to stimulate the internal clitorous, when to slow it down, when to amp it up and how to mix it up masterfully.
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Ep. 10.5 With Alexandra and Rodd Stockwell

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If you want a great relationship, you need to know how to communicate, even in the heat of an argument. Learn four simple yet powerful techniques for turning an argument into intimacy when you join Alexandra & Rodd Stockwell as we explore How to Keep the Fights Clean, DURING: "Mine, Yours & Ours - 3 Key Perspectives for Ending Arguments With Ease".
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Ep. 10.4 With Lauren Harkness & Guy Shahar

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Join Raj and I with our special guests Lauren Harkness and Guy Shahar as we delve into "Powerful Practices as Access and Anchors to New Sexual Terrain". Learn how to communicate openly and often about intimacy, plus practices you can do on your own or together that will keep you engaged and evolving as you up-level your sex-life.
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Ep. 10.3 With Alexi Panos & Preston Smiles

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Before a brewing battle gets the best of you and your relationship, brush up on your fighting fair skills and join us as we explore what to do just as a fight is forming so you can head it off at the pass and avoid any unnecessary arguments. Join our guests Preston Smiles and Alexi Panos to discuss our top tips on How to Keep the Fights Clean: AS IT STARTS, How Awareness and Choice Can End an Argument In It's Tracks.
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Ep. 10.2 With Kayce Neill

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Acting in advance can create easy access to up-leveling intimacy. Uncover each-other's Erotic Blueprint as your entry point to an endless erotic evolution together. Uncover the naughty nuances and the delicious differences in your desires with these simple steps for How to Keep the Sex Dirty: BEFORE "Act in Advance: Accessing Endless Erotic Evolution."
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Ep. 10.1 With Lucia & Jacob

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If you take the time to explore shadow, moods and boundaries BEFORE an argument emerges then you set your relationship up for turning any conflict into greater connection. Join Raj and I with our special guests Lucia Gabriela & Jacob Jones, for the first episode of the season as we discuss how to identify and even anticipate shadow, moods, and common conflicts. Then translate those hurdles into habits and practices that bring peace to you, the moment and the relationship.

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Keeping the Fights Clean

How to turn repeat, extreme and long lasting fights into rare, mild and short-lived ones.
Had enough of argument exhaustion and being emotionally starved? Learn how to keep the fights clean now!

Fights-Clean-Steps-Circle-(Before)

It’s what you do well before any fights flare up that will dictate how OFTEN you fight, how BAD it gets and how LONG it lasts.
INVEST even a little intention, attention and action BEFORE any problems surface and avoid it being DEMANDED of you later.!

AS IT STARTS

Put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining NOW! STOP that argument in it’s tracks, tame the tension and turn what WAS well on it’s way to upset and separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy, bringing you CLOSER than you were before any tension had started.

DURING

In a heated, ugly argument, the stakes are high, the dynamic is volatile and the outcome is often costly, if not devastating. Don’t let your conscious, compassionate, big-picture brain get hijacked by your reactive, defensive, fight-or-flight “lower brain.”

AFTER

You got upset and argued. You might have even let it get a bit ugly. Still, you managed to get through it. NOW WHAT? Don’t just move on, move FORWARD. You CAN turn an argument into intimacy or a breakdown into a breakthrough.

Keeping the Sex Dirty

How to turn distractions, boredom, and blocks into intention, excitement and bliss. Had enough
separateness, feeling lonely (even when you’re together) and stale, predictible sex (if much of any at all!)?
Learn how to keep the sex dirty now!

Ever heard of 24 Hour Foreplay? Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction even begins. Baby step actions can lead
to tidal wave impact so show even just a little love (and lust), early and often to keep it healthy, happy and hot!

AS IT STARTS

Stale, predictible and even boring are the most common words I hear from couples describing their sexual hurdles. Keeping it fresh, fun and flirty is a VERY good idea for any couple. Learn what a little focus on timing, temptation and teasing can do for YOUR relationship.

DURING

Don’t let the hot coals of passion cool, turn to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sex life just keeps getting better and better. Best-Eva-Sexy-Time is NOT behind you!

AFTER

You might think the “deed is done,” but is it, really? Scoop up all that yummy post orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill so you just keep getting closer and closer and the sex just keeps getting better and better.