How to Keep the Fights Clean & the Sex Dirty

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It’s time to stop fighting and start flirting. It’s time to stop BEING busy and start GETTING busy. FCSD TV is here to make it easy and fun.

Where “Keeping the Fights Clean
& the Sex Dirty” All Started

The day we got married, someone told us “All you need to remember for a great marriage is to keep the fights clean and the sex dirty!” We thought that was GREAT advice. And years later, when we surveyed our clients and asked what THEY struggled with the most in their relationship, they all pretty much fell into those two categories. If you know how to “keep it clean” when it comes to fighting and “keep it dirty” when it comes to sex, then you are bound to enjoy a playful, peaceful, passionate relationship.

Learning next level skills for when and how to be nice and when and how to be naughty so you can save being nasty for your sex life is a Relationship Game Changer so all our tips are organized into how to keep the Fights Clean or the Sex Dirty. We also organize these top tips, tools and techniques by WHEN you will need them the most. What you do well BEFORE a fight starts verses when you are IN IT, is VERY different. So all our tips are organized by what the best tip is for the juuuust the right moment.

Keeping the Fights Clean

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How to turn repeat, extreme and long lasting fights into rare, mild and shortlived ones.
Had enough of argument exhaustion and being emotionally starved?
Learn how to keep the fights clean now!

BEFORE

It’s what you do well before any fights flare up that will dictate how OFTEN you fight, how BAD it gets and how LONG it lasts. INVEST even a little intention, attention and action BEFORE any problems surface and avoid it being DEMANDED of you later.

AS IT STARTS

Put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining NOW! STOP that argument in it’s tracks, tame the tension and turn what WAS well on it’s way to upset and separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy, bringing you CLOSER than you were before any tension had started.

DURING

In a heated, ugly argument, the stakes are high, the dynamic is volatile and the outcome is often costly, if not devastating. Don’t let your conscious, compassionate, big-picture brain get hijacked by your reactive, defensive, fight-or-flight “lower brain.”

AFTER

You got upset and argued. You might have even let it get a bit ugly. Still, you managed to get through it. NOW WHAT? Don’t just move on, move FORWARD. You CAN turn an argument into intimacy or a breakdown into a breakthrough.

Keeping the Sex Dirty

How to turn distractions, boredom, and blocks into intention, excitement and bliss.
Had enough separateness, feeling lonely (even when you’re together) and stale,
predictible sex (if much of any at all!)? Learn how to keep the sex dirty now!

BEFORE

Ever heard of 24 Hour Foreplay? Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction even begins. Baby step actions can lead to tidal wave impact so show even just a little love (and lust), early and often to keep it healthy, happy and hot!

AS IT STARTS

Stale, predictable and even boring are the most common words I hear from couples describing their sexual hurdles. Keeping it fresh, fun and flirty is a VERY good idea for any couple. Learn what a little focus on timing, temptation and teasing can do for YOUR relationship.

DURING

Don’t let the hot coals of passion cool, turn to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sex-life just keeps getting better and better. Best-Eva-Sexy-Time is NOT behind you!

AFTER

You might think the “deed is done,” but is it, really? Scoop up all that yummy post orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill so you just keep getting closer and closer and the sex just keeps getting better and better.

Season #9
THE SEASON OF PLAY

Season 9 is the Season of PLAY. Because anyone in relationship knows, it takes something! A P3 Relationship does NOT happen on it’s own. You have to actually get in the game, on the court and PLAY FULL OUT.

We make this fun, positive and use themes to inspire and motivate us to keep our eyes on the prize and to resist the drain and drudgery of the default way of relating.

Save the HEAT for the healthy-happy-hot-sex-life! You’ve got this! And it CAN be the BEST year on your RELATIONSHIP.

While we will cycle through the eight core FCSDTV topics (Fights Clean: Before, As It Starts, During & After and Sex Dirty: Before, As It Starts, During & After), each episode this season will bring extra focus on how to bring more PLAY to your relationship.

Interact with educated, experienced, entertaining specialists in the relationship realm. And nearly ALL of our interviewees are couples, even if their beloved is not also an expert.  That way you won’t hear just theory or good ideas, you’ll get to SEE for yourself. The proof is in the unspoken pudding! (And stay tuned for upcoming announcements on the Awesome Interviewees we’ve got in store for you this season.)

Expect to laugh, learn and love yourself and your beloved more with every episode! Season 9 runs from June 26th to August 14th!

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Ep. 9.4 With Leslie Grace

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Put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining NOW! STOP that argument in it's tracks, tame the tension and turn what WAS well on it's way to upset and separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy, bringing you CLOSER than you were before any tension had started. Join Robert Kandell & Morgan Mellas as we explore "Early Alert Systems for Avoiding Unnecessary Arguments"

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Ep. 8.8 With Lila Donnolo

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You might think the “deed is done,” but is it, really? Scoop up all that yummy post orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill so you just keep getting closer and closer and the sex just keeps getting better and better. Join Lila Donnolo as we explore How to Keep the Sex Dirty – AFTER, "8 Purposeful and Playful-Sexy-Time Practices."
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Ep. 8.7 With Ashley & Mike

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You got upset and argued. You might have even let it get a bit ugly. Still, you managed to get through it. NOW WHAT? Don't just move on, move FORWARD. You CAN turn an argument into intimacy or a breakdown into a breakthrough. Join Ashley & Mike Bledsoe as we dive deep into How to Keep the Fights Clean, AFTER: "How to Heal After a Hurtful Argument"
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Ep. 8.6 with Céline & Kevin

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Best-Eva-Sexy-Time (B.E.S.T.) is NOT behind you! Don't let the hot coals of passion cool, turn to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sexlife just keeps getting better and better. Join Raj and me, plus our special guests Céline Remy & Kevin Anthony!
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Ep. 8.5 With Mariana & Dmitriy

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"Tired of the tension, bickering or even outright fighting? Had enough of being exhausted by repetitive upsets? Check out our quick, easy-access tips and techniques to tame triggers and ditch the dispute and dive in an instant delight. Enjoy a new level of trust, intimacy, and joy unknown before. You'll be well on your way to a playful, peaceful, passionate, P3 Relationship. Join Mariana Grace and Dmitriy Kozlov as we explore How to Keep the Fights Clean – DURING, “Ditch the Dispute and Dive Into Delight”.
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Ep. 8.4 With Kimberly Anderson

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Stale, predictable and even boring are the most common words I hear from couples describing their sexual hurdles. Keeping it fresh, fun and flirty is a VERY good idea for any couple. Learn what a little focus on timing, temptation and teasing can do for YOUR relationship. Join AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, Kimberly Resnick Anderson, as we explore "Avoiding Aversion & Inviting Arousal".
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Ep. 8.3 With Morgan & Rob

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Often in relationships over time, we end up hiding our true feelings. We shift from biting our tongue to blowing our cool. We either grow distant or combative. Numb or demanding. Neither is very helpful. Both are quite painful. If you want to know "How to Never Have to Hide Out Again", how to be transparent and tell the truth, (even when you know it's going to take its' toll) and how you can create connection (even when you can't seem to find common ground), then join Morgan & Rob while we explore our top tips for How to Keep the Fights Clean: As It Starts.
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Ep. 8.1 With Jamee & James

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Your relationship HABITS will dictate your relationship HAPPINESS so join us as we explore How to Keep the Fights Clean: BEFORE "Nip Negativity in the Bud BEFORE it Blows Up In Your Face" with the always inspiring and wildly talented Jamee & James Kyson. If you want a few quick quality tips on ending an argument BEFORE it even has a chance to get started, then don't miss this interview!

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Keeping the Fights Clean

How to turn repeat, extreme and long lasting fights into rare, mild and short-lived ones.
Had enough of argument exhaustion and being emotionally starved? Learn how to keep the fights clean now!

Fights-Clean-Steps-Circle-(Before)

It’s what you do well before any fights flare up that will dictate how OFTEN you fight, how BAD it gets and how LONG it lasts.
INVEST even a little intention, attention and action BEFORE any problems surface and avoid it being DEMANDED of you later.!

AS IT STARTS

Put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining NOW! STOP that argument in it’s tracks, tame the tension and turn what WAS well on it’s way to upset and separate-ness, into new levels of intimacy, bringing you CLOSER than you were before any tension had started.

DURING

In a heated, ugly argument, the stakes are high, the dynamic is volatile and the outcome is often costly, if not devastating. Don’t let your conscious, compassionate, big-picture brain get hijacked by your reactive, defensive, fight-or-flight “lower brain.”

AFTER

You got upset and argued. You might have even let it get a bit ugly. Still, you managed to get through it. NOW WHAT? Don’t just move on, move FORWARD. You CAN turn an argument into intimacy or a breakdown into a breakthrough.

Keeping the Sex Dirty

How to turn distractions, boredom, and blocks into intention, excitement and bliss. Had enough
separateness, feeling lonely (even when you’re together) and stale, predictible sex (if much of any at all!)?
Learn how to keep the sex dirty now!

Ever heard of 24 Hour Foreplay? Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction even begins. Baby step actions can lead
to tidal wave impact so show even just a little love (and lust), early and often to keep it healthy, happy and hot!

AS IT STARTS

Stale, predictible and even boring are the most common words I hear from couples describing their sexual hurdles. Keeping it fresh, fun and flirty is a VERY good idea for any couple. Learn what a little focus on timing, temptation and teasing can do for YOUR relationship.

DURING

Don’t let the hot coals of passion cool, turn to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sex life just keeps getting better and better. Best-Eva-Sexy-Time is NOT behind you!

AFTER

You might think the “deed is done,” but is it, really? Scoop up all that yummy post orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill so you just keep getting closer and closer and the sex just keeps getting better and better.