How to Keep the Fights Clean & the Sex Dirty

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Ep. 6.1 Keep The Fights Clean – BEFORE:  The Problem is The Path

It’s what you do well before any fights flare up that will dictate how OFTEN you fight, how BAD it gets and how LONG it lasts. INVEST even a little intention, attention and action BEFORE any problems surface and avoid it being DEMANDED of you later. Getting ahead of the game can create not only peace, but also a pathway to passion too!

Don’t wait for the tension to mount. Front-load for a fabulous relationship NOW! Join Gaby & Raj along with special guest, Andy Horning, as we dive deep into “How to Keep the Fights Clean – BEFORE: “The Problem is The Path.”

Special Guests Bio: Andy Horning is the creator and host of Elephant Talk, a bold and unadulterated exploration of all aspects of love and partnership. Elephant talk look beyond the laundered, sunshine and butterflies version of love and explore the dirty and profane, the sacred and the beautiful, the ugly, mixed up, gloriously real kind of love.

Through the years, Andy has loved processing all things relationship! Whether it’s his marriage, or his friends’ relationship struggles and successes, he’s always wanted a world that is more open and honest.

Andy is an LCSW couples therapist with a private practice for 15 years, a graduate of the University of Michigan, and a faculty member at the Hoffman Institute, a personal growth retreat in California. He’s been in a men’s group for nearly 20 years and is a former high school basketball coach for 15 seasons. The last time he was on the radio was doing football game commentary for the college radio station and is now fired up for more Elephant Talking in the world!

His favourite piece of relationship advice: “She doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.” This little nugget has continued to nourish him through the years both inside and outside of his marriage. He is married to Genny for 13 years, and they have two children, Campbell and Mackenzie.

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21 replies
  1. Relationship Fun & Games
    Relationship Fun & Games says:

    The Challenge & Choice:
    2. Under the Rug or Purposeful Path?
    3. Seeds or Weeds?

  2. Relationship Fun & Games
    Relationship Fun & Games says:

    The Problem is NOT the Problem.
    The problem is you THINK
    “the problem is a problem.
    The “problem” is actually the PATH.

  3. Relationship Fun & Games
    Relationship Fun & Games says:

    Great thing about check-ins is that it is a little connection point on letting your partner know that you are thinking about them.

  4. Relationship Fun & Games
    Relationship Fun & Games says:

    There is something powerful about a touch at the back, a stroke on the head or a kiss of the cheek or a quick hug…I can feel my whole body just relax. For me, everything shifts and I am in a safe and secure place. – Andy

  5. Relationship Fun & Games
    Relationship Fun & Games says:

    Soothing mantra: “This is a dark moment but it’s only a moment and we’ll get through it together.”

  6. Relationship Fun & Games
    Relationship Fun & Games says:

    Once we are able to take care of the nurturing and connect, then the friction and tension become only temporary, so the baseline now is CONNECTION and LOVE. – Andy

  7. Relationship Fun & Games
    Relationship Fun & Games says:

    Just because one person is cranky, doesn’t mean the other person has to be hooked by it. They can actually be generous about it instead. – Gaby

  8. Relationship Fun & Games
    Relationship Fun & Games says:

    When you are engage in a suffering and get stuck in it, know that you have a choice to actually do it differently. – Raj

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