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Ep. 4.6: How to Steer Clear of Stale & Predictable Sexy Time, Every Time

Don’t believe the cliches. Passion doesn’t have to fade! You absolutely CAN deepen your lovemaking connection, intimacy, and expand your “Pleasure Boundaries.” Best-Eva-Sexy-Time (B.E.S.T.) is NOT behind you!

Don’t let the hot coals of passion cool, turn to ash and disappear. You CAN fuel the fire, keep those coals glowing and ensure that your sex-life just keeps getting better and better. Best-Eva-Sexy-Time is NOT behind you!

Join Sherry Froman & Scooter Wilson as we dive into How to Keep the Sex Dirty DURING: “How to Steer Clear of Stale & Predictable Sexy-Time, Every Time.”

Special Guest Bio: Sherry Froman and Scooter Wilson have a 7 year relationship history of exploring various forms of conscious sexuality and sensuality in their relationship. Sherry has been creating play parties for the past 14 years, is a sexuality and relationship coach as well as raw vegan chef, pagan minister, bodyworker, and event producer.

Scooter is a 20 year veteran of the entertainment industry working in film, television, and party production. They have just completed a 5 year run of the beloved Burning Man camp called Chakralicious Camp, and have hosted numerous erotic parties and have created intentional beautiful spaces for people to share intimacy in.

Both are also established film makers and video editors of the erotic arts. They both enjoy bringing people together into community to learn how to grow deeper with each other, how to communicate in ways that are sexy and empowering, and how to just have fun and enjoy the good life when it comes to sex and exploration.

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  1. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    The 3 No’s of Naughty are as follows:

    No #1 – Take that idea off the table. Even the thought of it is upsetting.

    No #2 – It’s possible, but it’s really going to take something. I’m not interested now, and I’m not seeking to be convinced, but I could be.

    NO #3 – Not yet, but you are close, I am interested, but not quite there yet, keep trying, I want to be convinced…

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  2. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    Your ACTION OPTION should you choose to accept it, is to..

    STEP 1: IN ADVANCE – tell your beloved that you’ve got some fun ideas for spicing things up and taking your sexy-time to a new level. Tell them about the “3 No’s of Naughty” and your intention to create a relaxed, fun way to explore the outer edges of your “pleasure boundaries” while always respecting where those boundaries are.

    STEP 2: GETTING STARTED – set the stage, initiate and engage in sexy-time. (See Sex Dirty – BEFORE & AS IT STARTS for more tips on this step).

    STEP 3: IN IT – As you’re on-ramping into sexy-time, tell your beloved that you will be trying out something new and remind them about using the “3 No’s of Naughty” to indicate how interested or comfortable they might be.

    STEP 4: BONUS – Invite your beloved to make their own edge suggestions and moves and to list for your “3 No’s of Naughty” until you find what is a resounding YES!

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  3. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    “Play parties are events that allow people, usually from overlapping communities, to be sexually free with anyone of their choosing in a save environment. People are typically hand selected for the party. Some couples go simply because it is exciting to have sex with one another with other people around them. It is a very warm, loving, caring environment.” – Sherry Froman

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  4. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    “If you have been with your partner for about six months or so and have been monogamous your whole life, you may want to wait a little longer in that particular relationship before you decide to open it up to the idea of ‘Play Parties’ ” – Scooter Wilson

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  5. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    Exploring the differences between fantasy, needs, and desires can work as a framework for discovering your sexual boundaries and exploring those edges.

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  6. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    It is important to know the difference between the “mind” fantasies and the “action” fantasies. Ones that are in the “action” column are fantasies that can actually be acted on without requiring too much departure from your current comfort zone, whereas the fantasies in the “mind” column perhaps only exist in the mind for now because they require a bit more exploration than the “action” ones, but they could one day be moved over the “action” column with a little bit of play 😉

    – Scooter Wilson

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  7. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    “Remember to make time to really be with your partner, people all too often get so caught up in the business of their live, but to me the essence of what keeps couples together is the ability to drop in and ignore the world around you and to create an intentional space around the relationship to help keep you two connected.”

    – Sherry Froman

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  8. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    “Be sure to keep that fun & joy in your life and to bring those both into your sex-life as well. Everything doesn’t have to be so serious all the time!”

    – Scooter Wilson

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  9. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    To learn more about Sherry Froman please visit her facebook page at: facebook.com/sherryfroman

    To learn more about Scooter Wilson please visit her facebook page at: facebook.com/scooterwilson

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