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Ep. 4.2: How to Avoid the Autopilot and Build A Foundation for Explosive Sexual Healing

Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction even begins. And it doesn’t just happen on it’s own.

Sure, life IS busy. The day-to-day hurdles of life can quickly soak up your time, energy and attention, often leaving you with little left over for getting loved up and lusty later.

Take action towards initiating arousal early and often and you’ll ensure you get the benefits of “easy-acces-on-ramps to intimacy.”

Special Guest Bio: Ben and Jen Rode are the visionary co-founders of The Rode Institute, an educational center for the advancement of spiritual partnerships, sexuality, and spirituality. Ben and Jen are motivational speakers, leading relationship experts, and cutting edge spiritual teachers.

They’re internationally renowned transformational leaders and the creators of Explosive Sexual Healing. Ben and Jen have revolutionized sexual healing and redefined spiritual partnership for the modern age by bringing sexuality out of the shadows and into the light of the mainstream.

They’re featured alongside Deepak Chopra, Marianne Williamson, the Dalai Lama, and Desmond Tutu in the Shift Movie. Explosive Sexual Healing has been covered by salon.com, Huffington Post, Sirius FM, The Young Turks, Private Matters TV, Elephant Journal, and has been blasted by Bill O’Reilly.

Ben and Jen’s passionate mission is to unite spiritual co-creative partnerships for the advancement of humanity. You can find out more about their work at: explosivesexualhealing.com.

 

13 replies
  1. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    “A bad relationship is when you want the other person to be something they are not, and a good, “sovereign,” relationship is when you let someone be their best self.” –Ben Rode

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  2. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    Your ACTION OPTION should you choose to accept it, is to…

    STEP 1: Take stock. List 3 current habits that help move you TOWARDS what you want in regards to your sex-life, 3 habits that get in the way, and 3 new habits that you are willing to commit to.

    STEP 2: Declare your focus on at least one habit to break and one to bring in or strengthen.

    STEP 3: Share your list with your beloved. Invite your beloved to play. (IF they are up for it. Do not force it!)

    STEP 4: Stack the cards in your favor, set alarms, get a buddy, post reminders, rubber band on your wrist, etc. BONUS: Research YOUR most common forms of self sabotage.

    STEP 5: Do what you said you would. Do it again and again and when you fall off the wagon, dust yourself off and start again.

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  3. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    Be proactive instead of reactive when it comes to sex, it isn’t the man who can GIVE the orgasm, it is the woman’s orgasm to make happen. It belongs to her. And vice versa!

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  4. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    The 3 types of sexuality described in the “Erotic Mind” book that most people fit into are:

    Partner Engagement – good for intimacy and connection, when you require more connection with your partner to climax

    Erotic Trance – this type is typically better at self-pleasuring

    Role-Play – a good way to meet both needs if one partner is “partner engagement” and one is “erotic trance”

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  5. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    To find out more about Ben & Jen Rode please go to: http://www.sovu4u.com and if you go here you will get a month of our Sovereign U Partner Program completely free!

    Also Jen Rode will be doing a retreat in Sedona, AZ where we will discuss how to do business in a way that’s easy, fun & light in the same way that our sex is! We believe that business should not be busy-ness! To find out more about Jen’s retreat please send us a private message on facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/BENRODEESH?fref=ts

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  6. Gaby Sundra
    Gaby Sundra says:

    Join us next week ay 5:30pm PST for: Fights Clean – AS IT STARTS with special guests Novalena & Jeremy Nichele where we discuss “Early Alert Systems for Avoiding Unnecessary Arguments” so you can put an end to blaming, shaming, and complaining. You will also learn some tips to tame the tension and avoid the “on-ramps to upsets.”

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