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Set Yourselves Up For Sexiness

What would it be like if your sexual relationship was uninhibited, bold and free? What if you had quality communication, you could stop walking on eggshells and be able to say what you REALLY wanted…And to say what you DIDN’T want. with out any blame, shame or guilt?

We can show you some quick, simple, fun was to bring sexy back! These articles will create a sense of openness, curiosity and adventure. They will help you feel more comfortable, confident and fully expressed in the bedroom (and beyond!).

RFG Quick Tip Video Clip #6 – “The Three No’s of Naughty “

Things Can Get Nasty You’re in the thick of it. You’ve felt the tension building. Now suddenly it’s a free-for-all. Triggers, reactions and emotions are flying high. Maybe you even sink to resorting to the no-holds-barred manner of relating. And it’s off the races to who is right, who’s wrong, who’s the victim or who’s the oppressor. Things can get nasty, even ugly and […]

RFG Quick Tip Video Clip #8 – “Romp Recap”

Get The Gist We know you’re busy and life is FULL, still a crappy relationship is a huge energy and time suck, right? We get you don’t have a lot of either to spare, still you DO need help. We all do! A playful, peaceful, passionate relationship TAKES SOMETHING, but it IS worth it. And we’re here to make it […]

Romp Replay Ripple Effect

Stretch the Impact You might think the “deed is done,” but is it, really? It’s time to take a closer look and discover new ways to scoop up all that yummy post orgasmic energy, good times and goodwill to ensure that you just keep getting closer and closer – and that the sex just keeps getting better and better. Don’t […]

YES Them

Say It Try this. Read this out loud. Yes. Yeeeeeeees. Yesssssssss. YES! Now this one… No. Nooooooooooo. Nnnnnnnnnno. NO! Which one feels better on your lips and in your body? I hope you said YES! What a great word, right? It’s open. It welcomes, invites and starts. A Natural YES Now some things are easier to say yes to than others, and some feel impossible. And in plenty […]

Booty Before Breki

Stale, Predictable & Boring One of the most common complaints we hear when someone is unsatisfied with their sexlife with their beloved is that it can, little by little, get stale, predictable, and some even say, boring. Which sucks because that leads to you having less and less sexy-time and becoming more and more separate and ultimately even roommate like. […]

Building Trust For Better Sex

Early & Often Sex gets sexy (or goes south) WELL BEFORE the seduction ever begins. If you invest a little intention, attention and action early and often, the baby step actions can lead to a tidal wave of positive impact on the intimacy and sexiness in your relationship. Keeping your relationship passionate should not be “work.” Let’s PLAY passion […]

The Pleasure and Power of “Post-Play”

Ride That Wave ALL The Way In I grew up spending my summers on the beach nearly all day, every day. I used to boogie board – A LOT. One of my favorite parts of boogie boarding was riding the wave all the way to the shore. I wanted to savor the ride, and I would pump the board up and down […]

How To Lead AND Listen, Be Forceful AND Loving

Context is KING! Before you dive into delicious sex, decide what you REALLY want and what is the CONTEXT for your most INTIMATE INTERACTIONS. Is your unsatisfying sex life just one more thing on the long list of things you can be irked with your beloved about? Or is your sexlife an inspiring arena to play, learn and grow together? Do […]

Set & Setting Are EVERYTHING

Set & Setting Are EVERYTHING! I’m not into psychedelics, but I sure am into super satisfying sex! Still, you can learn a lot about how to have super-satisfying-sex by taking a lesson out of the psychedelic handbook. “Set and setting” is EVERYTHING. Dr. Norman E. Zinberg developed this theory as applied to psychedelic experiences, but it’s a great eye opener when applied […]

Initiate Inertia – Tend To Your Garden Or Weeds WILL Grow

Tend to Your Garden, Or Weeds WILL Grow Seduction starts WAY earlier than most think. In fact, it’s happening ALL the time. Adam Gilad and his wife Sandy call it 24 hour foreplay (hear all about it in Fights Clean, Sex Dirty TV Season 1, Episode #8). The way you relate to your partner ALL-DAY-LONG creates your relationship environment. That environment will determine […]