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“With our default day-to-day lives, we’ve started to drift apart. We even seem to stay busy to avoid spending any real time together. But why bother spending time together when we just bicker all the time and over absolutely nothing. Having any fun time together is a rarity and the hot sex we once had feels like it’s distant history.”

 

OUCH!

Painful? Certainly, yes.

Uncommon? Sadly, no.

It’s kind of crazy how easy it is to get so upset. How quickly all rationale can go out the window and how often reaction rules the day.

And it’s just plain sad how cliche it is to slowly lose sight of the hot (and even healing), sex that was once such a joy for you both.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.

 

Raj and I have heard these relationship frustrations and then some. Hey, we’ve BEEN through these.

We first figured out what works and what doesn’t and then found a way to make it easier and more fun.

Which makes it even more amazing that today we have more play, peace and passion in our relationship than EVER before.

We researched, studied and practiced then revised and repurposed the best of the best in the relationship realm.

We first figured out what works and what doesn’t and then found a way to make it easier and more fun.

And if WE can do it, then YOU most certainly can too.

So let’s celebrate this victory.

You are here NOW. And that’s GOOD news.

If you are reading this today, then despite any of the challenges, frustration or pain you might be experiencing in your relationship right not, you likely know that deep down there is something really RIGHT about your relationship. Your relationship is not only worth “saving”, it’s worth, (and YOU are worth), making it WONDERFUL.

You DESERVE to have a playful, peaceful, passionate, P3 Relationship .

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Enjoy True Connection & Contentment Now!

You have gotten yourself this far and by now, you know a thing or two about relationships, or at least about your relationship.

You might have seen some growth and you might have experienced SOME frustration, but you CARE and you are willing to get creative to make it not only work, but rock!

Maybe you’ve even gone so far as to read relationship books, attended workshops or been to therapy. Or maybe you’ve just been doing the best you can by winging it and going off of what you learn along the way.

No matter what your path, if you have been in a committed relationship for any real period of time, you likely have some idea of the challenges – big and small.

You’ve likely experienced quite a variety of relationship challenges whether it be mind-bending bickering and ugly upsets, or a stale, predictable, embarrassed-to-talk-about-it sex life or even…

(Insert your own particular “flavor” of challenge here. Yes. THAT ONE. )…

There is a mountain of material out there – articles, books, workshops, therapy, advice from friends – It’s A LOT.

There is no shortage of “growth material” available, is there? It’s big. It’s easy to get overwhelmed and distracted and end up settling for putting out fires in your relationship, rather than intentionally steering the ship towards the relationship you REALLY want.

And if you are anything like most other couples, life is more than a tad busy, and often stressful.

Making the time and mustering the strength it takes to wade through the ocean of relationship advice out there – to read all the books, attend the workshops and pay for expensive therapy sessions – well it can seem, at times, impossible.

Sometimes it feels so big you might even get a little (or A LOT), cynical or resigned about it.

You could go-it-alone and sort through all that’s out there. You could continue to somehow find a way to make it through your messy arguments, or be “fine” with how your sex life is going, yet… YOU DON’T HAVE TO.

Look, we get it. We’ve dug ourselves and other couples out of some dark holes AND we have gotten to new heights.

Raj and I know how hard relationships can be, AND how great they can be. What they take, and why it is WORTH IT. We know how hard it can be to learn and develop the skills to have the kind of relationship that is so obviously great that friends, family and even strangers begin to take notice and say “I want what they have.”

We’ve invested decades in education, training and research and have endless enthusiasm for finding the most current, fun, helpful, wide variety of resources we can get our hands on.

It really took something to get to where we are, and learn all we have learned. We have paid the price of admission to a playful, peaceful, passionate, P3 Relationship with extensive research, training and plenty of experience.

You should have seen us. People did NOT want what we had.

And oh how far we have come. You should’ve seen us. People did NOT want what we had. DURING our actual engagement party, we were asked by a dear friend to reconsider getting married!

Well, we not only got married, we committed to having an extraordinary relationship that makes a difference for those around us and the world.

We followed our gut that there was something REALLY right about us and set about developing the skills that would let us both experience the joy of each other, a great life and being a contribution to others.

We have succeeded in finding a way to be a happier, more connected and passionate couple year after year.

Still, we don’t think it should be so hard to learn to transform your relationship or at minimum, to shift some key behaviors that are tripping you up again and again!

It seemed like even the best relationship education content was being delivered in an overly intellectual, serious, or spiritual way.

And it shouldn’t take that long to get RESULTS that REALLY make a difference in your relationship and a difference that LASTS.

That’s why we composed a gorgeous gathering just for couples like you, in a format that leaves you empowered to use BOTH the structure and support of others, partnered with personalizing your OWN plan, in your OWN time and in your OWN way.

We’re also more than a bit tired of how it often seemed like even the best relationship education content was being delivered in an overly intellectual, serious, or spiritual way. Ar least for our taste anyway.

WE wanted something more fun, current, playful so we could loosen up about conflict and sex and start to experiment and get playful about our growth and development as a couple.

So here it is! Direct to you in your homes in the form of a 6-Week Course that you can participate in live or watch at your own convenience.

You can get your gold nuggets doing it once, or hold on to it and use it to dive deeper, or as a quick refresh now and again.

There are plenty of ideas and tips to choose from so you can pick which ones best suit your relationship and not get stuck in any one core idea, philosophy or strategy.

Until now, some of the biggest barriers in expanding your relationship education and improving your relationship skills (and in turn the entire quality of your life) have been…

  • Not having the time, money, motivation, energy or other ability to get you and your partner to a workshop or coach, or therapist.

  • The mountain of material on the subject and so little time or even interest to go through it – I mean who hasn’t thought “Can’t I just get this downloaded and just know it?” Or “Shouldn’t relationships be easier?”

  • Getting locked into one philosophy or strategy when pretty soon everything you looks like a nail because all you have is a hammer. You end up chasing your tail using models and jargon that often just add more flames to the fire.

That’s why we have to let you in on the easy way to “download” all we have learned over the decades in a fun, easy to access, highly impactful way.

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More and more couples like us want to grow with our partners, to have fun with them and be turned on by them. We want to feel energized, alive and excited by our partners and our lives.

We want MORE that just the “help-each-other-get-through-the-day/world” kind of mate.

We’ve come a long way from the caves when we pair bonded or DIED. We have shifted from a SURVIVAL focus to a SATISFACTION focus. So good news for all of us – Making it through the day is an OUTDATED GOAL!

More and more people are seeking out new ways to grow and thrive in their relationship.

There are more inspiring, sexy, delightful couples popping up all the time which gives us all even more encouragement and support to know that a playful, peaceful, passionate, P3 Relationship IS POSSIBLE!

And a wonderful relationship is just WORTH pursuing.

The negative cliches about how dull committed relationships have become is DEPRESSING!

Still the general societal norm seems to insist that an awesome relationship over time, is a fantasy, and just not possible.

There’s a lot of social agreement that relationships start out like hot coals (if you are lucky) and soon they start to cool and fade until all that remains is a gray, hollow, lump of ash – death by default.

The negative cliches about how dull and deadening committed relationships can be, are downright depressing!

  • The old ball and chain

  • Love is blind

  • Sex after marriage is an oxymoron

  • There are three rings of marriage – the engagement ring, the wedding ring, the suffering.

Can you say OUCH?

And couples caught in this nasty story about relationships will fight to convince you it is true. As silly as it sounds, misery loves company and the “Bickersons” are not likely to teach a lot about what to do to have a playful, peaceful passionate relations.

They secretly (or if we cut them some slack, subconsciously), want you to struggle the way they do all at the expense of your playful, peaceful, passionate, P3 Relationship that is waiting for you now.

That should make you a bit more than frustrated.

They want you to struggle the way they do, all at the expense of the potential playful, peaceful, passionate relationship.

But you do NOT have to live into those outdated, inherited, unhelpful, disempowering, depressing cliches!

You REALLY CAN get closer and have more fun together. And the sex REALLY CAN get hotter.

Introducing The…

“How to Keep the Fights Clean & the Sex Dirty”

6 Simple Steps to Turn Complaints and Conflict into Connection and Contentment

6-Week Course

We are over the moon happy to introduce you to this one time offering of our 6-Week Course.

Formulated by decades of research, study and experimentation/play, this 6-week course gives you the same education and exposure as if you did all the reading, attending and experimenting yourself, automatically.

You show up, and we promise you’ll hear something new and fun that you can use RIGHT AWAY AND FOREVER.

Now you can effortlessly learn and grow and play with your partner, all from the comfort and convenience of your own home, computer, tablet or even your smart phone.

You can begin to feel like you actually LIKE each other again.You can expect complaints and conflict to melt into connection and contentment.

You might begin to notice you start to seek out more time together than look for excuses to spend time apart. You very well could start lusting after each other again newly.

You might even find yourself surprised by how happy you are and how good things can be.

Plus, other people will likely notice a shift in your relationship and you could soon be hearing other couples and single friends say “I want what they have.”

Join Our 6-Week Course Starting Thursday, Jan. 12th Now – RISK FREE

“How To Keep the Fights Clean & The Sex Dirty”

6 Simple Steps to Turn Complaints and Conflict into Connection and Contentment

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Join Our 6-Week Course, Learn How To:

  • Turn Conflict Into Connection
  • Become a Fabulous Fighter
  • Steer Clear of Stale Sex

10+ hours of live interactive webinar:

  • 6, 1-hour LIVE Webinars, Thrs. 5:30p PST
  • Plus thousands of dollars of bonuses
  • Replays available if you can’t attend

Yours for 1 payment of $297 or 3 payments of $99 – with our 100% Money Back Guarantee!

But it won’t be for long as this will be a LIVE 6-Week Course and ONLY offered this ONCE.

The best time to take the next high-impact baby-step is NOW.

To not take advantage of the inspired, adventurous and motivated moment that brought you right here, right now, is like signing on to have that same-old argument, have the same-old sex, and be in the same-old relationship that brought you to this website today.

Before…

  • Your strapped schedules, surplus of stress and the misery-loves-company couples start to take their toll on your relationship and drag you into the default, dull or depressing relationship world…

  • The cliches of a committed relationship trap you like a “ball and chain” into unhealthy, unhappy patterns of relating to each other…

  • You spend WAY too much time, energy and money on either learning these critical relationship tricks the HARD way, or on NOT learning them at all…

If you WANT something different, then DO something different!

“How to Keep the Fights Clean & the Sex Dirty”

6 Simple Steps to Turn Complaints and Conflict into Connection and Contentment

When you participate in this 6-Week Course, you will almost IMMEDIATELY be able to…

  • Lighten up and laugh a lot

  • Use a variety of “Fabulous Fighting” tools to…

  • Translate contempt, complaint and conflict into compassion, connection and contentment.

  • Surprise and delight each other with praise, affection, sexy seductions and “BEST EVER” sex.

  • Find simple ways to “get hip to your partner’s happiness” and get back to enjoying the little things together.

Have the kind of relationship that friends, family and even strangers take notice of. They’re inspired by you and want to be around you.
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The content and delivery of this one time only 6-Week Course, are so memorable, that results LAST OVER TIME and leave you able to…

  • Relax into a rock solid relationship that avoids irritations and turns upsets into opportunities so you can enjoy ongoing, escalating, improvements.

  • You live with reciprocity that elevates and evolves your relationship. You shun the tit for tat mentality that drags down and devolves your relationship.

  • Experience deeper trust, authenticity, intimacy and self-expression – you feel seen, heard, valued and cherished. You can stop hiding, allow yourself to be vulnerable and start surrendering to each other.

  • Be each other’s best friend, closest confident, biggest cheerleader. You seek each other’s council, enjoy each other’s company, cherish each other’s partnership and are turned on by each other.

  • Have the kind of relationship that friends, family and even strangers take notice of. They’re inspired by you and want to be around you. (Bye-bye Bickersons!)

“Do you remember we used to dance and everyone wanted to be you and me…

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This 6-Week Course is ideal for people who are…

  • Tired of being tired by your relationship, eager to get inspired by it instead.

  • .Frustrated from just hoping it get’s better and willing to get pro-active towards a playful, peaceful, passionate relationship.

  • Stuck either from being too busy, frustrated or frozen to do REALLY do anything about their relationship.

  • Maybe not struggling to make it, still committed to it being the best it can be.

  • Single and seeking and getting ready for their future relationship NOW.

It’s for men, women and couples who want to practice Keeping the Fights Clean because they are so ready to…

  • Retire their repeat arguments, nip nagging in the bud and learn to turn power struggles into partnership.

  • Enjoy each other’s company, make time to be together, and have best-ever sex year after year.

  • Go on a drama diet and interrupt the up-and-down, round and round, merry go round.

It’s for people who want to practice Keeping the Sex Dirty because they are EVEN MORE ready to…

  • Steer clear of becoming stale, putting an end to being predictable, and really “gettin’ it goin’ on”, before they end up “going vanilla” instead.

  • Shun shoulds, shout out their sexiness. REALLY be themselves, intimately seen, seduced and surrendered with each other.

That all sounds pretty great…

Still, we know if you’re like most other couples, you might have some concerns popping up right… about… now.

The most common one is usually TIME. You might be thinking you don’t have time for a 6-Week Course on anything right now.

But REALLY, how much time did you spend last week either in an argument, avoiding one, or resenting the last one? How often did you have sex and how great was it?

You may have heard the expression the grass is greener on the other side, but the secret is actually that what you water grows!

Ditching the default habit and designing for delight can take some of your time and it can seem daunting, so we promise to keep it quick, simple and fun so the time investment is valuable and high leverage use of your time.

We’re committed to giving you IMMEDIATELY IMPACTFUL and LONG LASTING results.

In only 60-90 minutes weekly, in just 6 weeks, you can expect to feel…

  • Easy access to personalized coaching, as the webinars are live so we can have a dynamic interaction through chat during the webinar and the Q & A after each webinar.

  • Peaceful about the pace of your pleasure as the webinars are also recorded and emailed to you within 24 hrs so you can easily stay current and even save them for later for a relationship refresh.

  • Engaged and encouraged by the other couples on the Fights Clean Sex Dirty Facebook group.

Within a week of actually practicing even ONE of the tools with any care, creativity or consistency, you will feel…

  • Amazed at how cynicism is melting away and how hope and happiness are finding their way back in.

  • Inspired to not settle, get bored, make due with mediocre, or end up living distracted, disinterested, parallel lives.

  • Empowered to give up even the understandable excuses and begin to get over the obstacles to having a hot, healthy sex life.

  • Freed up from the temptation to “bail” and empowered to move beyond stuck points that in the past might have threaten or even ended your relationship.

Within 6 weeks you will experience…

  • Being DONE walking on eggshells, trying to do it right, or struggling to meet unrealistic expectations.

  • A release of resentment, and find a way to forgive, and create your relationship from an inspired proactive partnership.

  • Being as far away from being “THAT couple”, or the “Bickersons” as can be, so much so that even strangers take notice of your relationship and say “I want what they have.”

By the time we finish the 6-Week Course, you will notice a growing tendency to…

  • Ditch the distance or dismissiveness that used to build up from everyday stress and distractions.

  • Have a LOW threshold for unnecessary and upsetting crankiness. You see it coming, and know just what to do to shift from the reactive default to the proactive intentional action.

  • Not let the little things lead to big blow ups, or have the breakdowns lead to talk of breakups or dangle your relationship on the line in every upset.

  • Feel like the “romantic stage” is FAR from over and that many “BEST-EVERS” await you!

Here’s What We’ll Cover Over This 6-Week Adventure Together:

This is a detailed overview of what we will be discussing over the course of each & every week…

  • Week 1: Admit It and Take ACTION – Overview of the 6 sessions, flow and mechanics of the course. Topics include being pro-active, context is king, the power of clarity and declaration, Design vs. Default, and Intention, Attention & Action.

  • Week 2: Identify The Problem – Uncover common and personal hurdles (in the realms of Fights Clean and Sex Dirty, Before, As It Starts, During and After). Understand the costs and uncover the core emotions and 7 basic human needs underneath the conflicts and complaints.

  • Week 3: Get Clear on How You Want It To Be – Create a vision to move INTO. What does a P3 relationship mean to you and how to create your own Shared Relationship Vision.

  • Week 4: Understand Your Unsatisfactory “Solutions” – Common pitfalls. What NOT to do can be as powerful or even more than what TO DO.

  • Week 5: Select Solutions That REALLY Satisfy – Review a variety of solutions tailored to your specific challenges.

  • Week 6: Set Yourself Up For Success – Take aha-moments and turn them into New Normal habits through use of personalized systems for success that work for YOU.

Being Happy, Healthy & Hot just got A LOT easier!

“How to Keep the Fights Clean & the Sex Dirty”

6 Simple Steps to Turn Complaints and Conflict into Connection and Contentment

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And despite ALL these rave reviews some might still have concerns before jumping in…

For some, the concern is more about the money than anything else.

They are motivated and ready to get started on their own path to a playful, peaceful, passionate, P3 Relationship, but the cost of therapy or a coach or even a workshop is a significant obstacle.

This is EXACTLY why we are going a group webinar.

Raj and I wanted to remove any perceived barrier by offering a REALLY inexpensive group webinar format so you can get our best ideas and strategies for a real deal.

Our Relationship Diamond Mining Coaching services are fantastic, but since we only work with a handful of couples at a time, the cost is significantly higher than in a group webinar and for many couples they can experience the cost as a barrier.

We promise to offer ideas, tools, models, exercises, games and strategies in a way that is meaningful, memorable and fun.

Another common concern you might be burdened by right now is the idea that you might have an A-ha moment during the webinar, but soon it will fade and lack any real or lasting impact in your relationship and life.

Maybe you’ve noticed I write with a lot of alliterations, like a playful, peaceful, passionate, P3 Relationship.

Sure, I love the playfulness off them, but in reality there is a lot of brain science research that shows they are significantly helpful in helping people remember what they read, heard or saw.

Raj and I focus on delivering simple, fun and effective tips that will give you the ability to really listen to each other without feeling yourself impatient or rolling your eyes in contempt.

We are here to help you to finally be able to say sayonara to the “ME, MY, MINE” Syndrome without losing your sense of unique self and what is best about your desires.

We make it easy for you to NOT be satisfied with “fine” and not to stop until you find fun ways to make each other feel attractive, honored, and appreciated.

Looking at your relationship in a new light, with some levity and light heartedness, within days, and certainly weeks, you’ll notice immediate changes.

Your friends and family will notice too and say so.

You might even find yourself being asked “What’s gotten into you two?” or even spicier, being told to “Get a room!”.

But, as long as you feel too busy, like you can’t afford it, or it won’t really work, you are pretty much guaranteed things will stay the same (or get worse!). Irritations, upsets and a lack of any real intimacy will continue to plague your relationship and rob you from the playful, peaceful, passionate, P3 Relationship that is waiting for you RIGHT NOW.

Which might be “fine” for you. I mean after all, as I said before, you got you this far and who is to say what is, or is not possible for your relationship? Only YOU.

Unlike most of the mountain of material on relationships out there, this 6-Week Course is the rich combination of being simple, quick and inexpensive. On top of being FUN too!

It let’s you lighten up, let go of problems and start to find satisfying solutions.

So you can feel playful, peaceful and passionate about your partner again and actually look forward to seeing them.

You can experience peace in your home and in each other’s arms. Enjoy feeling playful, curious and adventurous.

It let’s you lighten up, let go of problems and start to find satisfying solutions.

Now if you are anything like most couples, you don’t like to even admit that there is an issue, let alone make time and spend some money to do anything about it.

You might get confronted with taking the next step towards something that is so central to your day-to-day and overall life happiness, yet so challenging to actually address and tend to. It’s understandable.

Many people will report that they stopped short of actually taking action. They want it to happen on it’s own, to have it somehow be easier. They wish there was something simple, quick and lasting that worked, but are afraid, cynical and resigned that it’s just not possible.

Well this webinar IS simple, quick and so memorable the tools will be hard to forget, not hard to remember. And you can have FUN while you do it too!

Many couples I know consider therapy, workshops, reading a lot or even just “winging it”, until they discover our product.

Then they realize that “working on your relationship” doesn’t have to be boring, serious, intellectual or spiritually focused, or “work”, at all. You can have fun as you grow together by moving past conflict and your default future and into pursuing passion and a future of your design.

Because your happiness and relationship are at stake, Raj and I want to make it as easy as possible for you, however our borderline insane discount is only available on this page now…

By Thursday Jan. 12th, this offer will be gone forever so consider yourself warned. Failure to take action NOW might likely result in feelings of apathy and hopelessness and even of throwing in the towel, and ending it.

This Course Is Gone January 12th

So Consider Yourself Warned!

Here’s What We’ll Cover Over This 6-Week Adventure Together:

This is a detailed overview of what we will be discussing over the course of each & every week…

  • Week 1: Admit It and Take action (context, clarity and declaration).

  • Week 2: Identify The Problem (hurdles, costs and core human needs).

  • Week 3: Get Clear on How You Want It To Be (dreams, visions and goals).

  • Week 4: Understanding Unsatisfactory “Solutions” (unconscious pitfalls).

  • Week 5: Select Solutions That REALLY Satisfy (top tips and tools).

  • Week 6: Set Yourself Up for Success (structures, systems and habits).

Join Our 6-Week Course Starting Thursday, Jan. 12th Now – RISK FREE

“How To Keep the Fights Clean & The Sex Dirty”

6 Simple Steps to Turn Complaints and Conflict into Connection and Contentment

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Join Our 6-Week Course, Learn How To:

  • Turn Conflict Into Connection
  • Become a Fabulous Fighter
  • Steer Clear of Stale Sex

10+ hours of live interactive webinar:

  • 6, 1-hour LIVE Webinars, Thrs. 5:30p PST
  • Plus thousands of dollars of bonuses
  • Replays available if you can’t attend

Yours for 1 payment of $297 or 3 payments of $99 – with our 100% Money Back Guarantee!

P.S. A wonderful relationship is so WORTH IT.

So don’t miss out on the most Playful, Peaceful, Passionate relationship possible. We’re here to make it easy and fun.

Your Partners in a P3 Relationship,

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